Was he CHEATING last night?!
Question: my boyfriend goes to work around 3pm, he called me at 12pm (in the afternoon) and told me he would call me before going to work.. only he never did. i called he's house and they told me that he already had left to work.. he usually gets out around 12am or 1am (night time) he works far so he makes about an hour to get home. only last night he didnt call me at all, i noticed that around 5am..and i havent heard from him since.. this is the second time he does this. and i told him to call no matter what time he got home. so i'm guessing he got home really late and didnt wanna call me knowing i would get mad. he works in a restaurant thats why he comes home late.
strange too that last time it was on a Friday and so was yesturday..do you think he is messing around??...
Answers: my boyfriend goes to work around 3pm, he called me at 12pm (in the afternoon) and told me he would call me before going to work.. only he never did. i called he's house and they told me that he already had left to work.. he usually gets out around 12am or 1am (night time) he works far so he makes about an hour to get home. only last night he didnt call me at all, i noticed that around 5am..and i havent heard from him since.. this is the second time he does this. and i told him to call no matter what time he got home. so i'm guessing he got home really late and didnt wanna call me knowing i would get mad. he works in a restaurant thats why he comes home late.
strange too that last time it was on a Friday and so was yesturday..do you think he is messing around??...
theres always a chance that hes not cheating.... he could be just really busy and tired... but i think you should confront him either way! its not right of him to keep putting you off, you're supposed to be one of the most important things to him
Yes. Everyone answered your first question that way. Face it.
Not necessarily, we need our private time and space
he could've been really tired and fell asleep when he got home before he could call. if he's cheating youll find out eventually
yes.
idk. sounds kind of fishy to me.
NOT 2 SURE, JUST ASK HIM 2 CLEAR ALL DOUBT!
I don't know.
It usually depends on his mood, I mean this time thing could happen to anyone.
He might have been really tired and wanted time to himself.
Try not to snoop around on him, I'm sure you wouldn't want the same thing.
Like I said, things like these happen to people all the time especially at restaurants because Fridays and Saturdays are really busy.
Guys sometimes need a "guys night out" they need to hang with their friends and it doesn't necessarily mean that he is cheating, if he was wrapped up in a big night out with his pals, then getting home on time isn't a big concern for him.
Tell him your concerns, and ask him outright, I'm sure it'll be nothing.
I dunno, maybe he had no battery or something, maybe snoop and call the restaurant and ask what time he left? or next Friday tell him you were really worried and wondered wher he was, or ask his parents what time he got home? Or ask him why he didnt call? i dunno, dont jump to conclusions just yet try and get answers first
hard to really tell..but if you are doubting him then there is probably a pretty good chance he isnt fully trustworthy...i would check into it and if it is really gettin to you i would talk to him about it.
LOL to Billy Shat! I couldnt tell you if he is cheating but if everything else is good and all thats wrong is missing phone calls I wouldnt sweat it, I mean he's worked all night, Im sure he doesnt want to chit chat on the phone BUT if he USED to always call and now he doesnt you may want to ask him why. If he has other strange behavior, then he is probably cheating. ?
Yes and more than likely with one of the waitresses he works with.
im srry but he was with me... seriously ..did you ever think that maybe he is just tired? and fell asleep as soon as he hit the door? if you want to know just ask him see what he says... you have to have trust or you have nothing and so far he really hasnt done anything but not call you ...
OF COURSE HE IS UP TO SOMETHING AND IT"snot you, get rid of the loser and go on
I think either partying w/o you or messing around. Maybe both. I would ask him why this always happens on friday nights and see what he says.Watch to see how nervous he gets when you ask him. That will tell you if he's cheating.
Don't jump to conclusions he might of been stuck in traffic or held up and had so much on his mind he probably forgot what time it was and forgot to ring. But if you definatly think hes cheating then secretly check his email and mobile inbox!
Good luck please reply to say if he has been cheating or not!
BFN
Stake out his place with a friends van see if he's comes home after work have him call your cell phone or use call forwarding to your new cell phone.