What would you do?????!
Question: if your friend sarah married your friend micheal and you just recently found out micheal was cheating on her. would you tell her or would you stay out of it? they are both your really good friends...
~thanks~
Answers: if your friend sarah married your friend micheal and you just recently found out micheal was cheating on her. would you tell her or would you stay out of it? they are both your really good friends...
~thanks~
OUCH! tough situation. You dont want to betray michael but at the same time you would be betraying Sarah.
Here is what I would do:
Let her find out some other way. Send an annonomous letter maybe! Or tell someone else to tell her.
Or just stick with whoever is the better friend.
Sticky situation but Sarah needs to know and you would be a bad friend to sarah to keep it from her.
i'd tell her. she deserves to know.
You don't know me very well, do you?
tell her....
I think I would confront him first and then if I had to tell her
tell her thats bad
tell her...and run like hell, they will both end up hating you
of course i would tell her no one deserves to be treated that way...she needs to find a better man.?
Stay out of it.
i would tottaly stay out of it. sooner or later they will find out
tell her
I would tell her and I would ask Micheal why he was cheating on her.
convince michael to tell her himself, then if he won't tell her.
id stay out of it
I'd tell her, cheaters don't get my respect.
I'd tell her the truth. I couldn't keep it in my mind forever.
Tell her.
unless i had proof like a picture or something I wouldnt, because just by your word she wont divorce him.but if i did have physical proof I would accidently leave it in her car
I'd think.."If I Bethany, married Brad...and he recently cheated on me and my really good friend, Barbara knew..would I want her to tell me?" If I wanted to know the truth to be told to me by a friend who knows.......then I'd do the same for a friend.
That's a hard call because how do you know that Sarah isn't going resent you, she may think that you are lying. Is there any other way you might be able to let Sarah know without it directly coming from you.
I only suggest this as I have seen great friends end up hating each other because one person told the other that their partner was cheating (even though it was the truth).
I don't see how their intimate problems are any business of me.
I dont know. If you know for sure, I would tell. If it is just hearsay, I would leave it alone until you know for sure. You dont want to ruin a relationship over what maybe a lie or a rumor.
if you're really good friends you should tell her.
Don't say a thing....even if that is against your good-nature and best intentions.
If you DO get involved, your friend Sarah will think you are lying (because she is probably so in love with Micheal that she can't see him for who he really is - aka blinded by love). So you have lost Sarah as a friend.
Then, Micheal will dump you as a friend of course for messing up his game.
If you stay quiet, you can just feign ignorance, and act as though you did not know what was going on.
You are not married to them, so it is not your squabble. Let them work their stuff out on their own. Getting involved in someone's marriage only results in YOU losing.
tell her; if it was switched and sarah new he was cheating on you wouldnt you want to know, plus if she ever found out you new and you didnt tell her you two would probably not be good fiends anymore.or make him tell her; tell him you will if he doesnt
Eeks.. Thats a tough one. I guess you would have to choose who you really wanted to be friends with in the end because Im sure Micheal won't talk to you after she tells him you told her. The other thing is if they work it out... your the bad guy. Sometimes its best to just stay out of it.
STAY OUT!! GETTING INVOLVED WILL GET YOU INVOLVED. THE MIDDLE IS THE MOST DANGERIOUS PLACE TO BE.
Why do people always feel the need to tell other women when their men are cheating on them? (Oh, yeah, because they *deserve* to know)
Stay out of it. It's not my business, nor yours, nor anyone else's on here. Who cares...let her find out for herself. If he wants her to know, he'd tell her. If she wants to know, she'd ask him. If people would mind their own business, the world would be a much better place.
I'd tell her, but if she doesn't believe you then stay out of it
If they were BOTH my very good friends, I would approach him first and talk with him and try to talk him into talking with her. No, on 2nd thought, I think I would stay out of it. No matter what would happen, this would end up hurting both of them. I would do something though, if I ever found out he cheated on her again.
talk to him first then go from there.