Do I have a chance with her? Am I too big for her?!
Question: I'm a junior in high school, she is a sophomore.
We have no classes together.
I've never talked to her at school before.
She's a cheerleader, I'm a football player
My main problem is I'm kinda big.
I play offensive line for the varsity football team. I'm 6'1" and 265 lbs. I lift in the off-season, so a good portion is muscle. But most of the muscle is in my legs. I'm told to have great leg strength, but an average upper body (so no muscles show up there).
Am I too big to ever go out with her?
Answers: I'm a junior in high school, she is a sophomore.
We have no classes together.
I've never talked to her at school before.
She's a cheerleader, I'm a football player
My main problem is I'm kinda big.
I play offensive line for the varsity football team. I'm 6'1" and 265 lbs. I lift in the off-season, so a good portion is muscle. But most of the muscle is in my legs. I'm told to have great leg strength, but an average upper body (so no muscles show up there).
Am I too big to ever go out with her?
physical attraction is only part of it, if you are a nice guy, and you have some of the same interests, go for it! the worst that could happen if you ask, is that she will say no. the worst that can happen if you don't ask, is that you will never know and she might have gone out with you! =) good luck
physical stuff shouldnt limit who you date.
just go for it, and if she thinks you are to big she will say no.
Why don't you ask her?
you both seem pretty good for each other.
i know you have probably heard this before, most likely from your mother, but its true;
"its what inside that counts"
meaning if she isn't a shallow *cough*, she shouldn't care if you're a larger build.
No, it doesn't matter
No. We females like strong guys. Ask her out. If you have doubts about her thinking your big. Ask her strait out if she dislikes your body size. She'll most probably say no. That she finds you very attractive just as you are.
she probably is too shallow - being a cheerleader:) lol just kidding