Have you ever Suffered through Extreme conditions in your life...???!
Question: What were they? Examples...no money, no job...stuff like that. How did you make it thru?
Answers: What were they? Examples...no money, no job...stuff like that. How did you make it thru?
i almost died twice... when my mom was seven months the doc told my mom i was dead and was suppose to go in to have me removed but she cried all night and my dad said ok we're not going and the next day they went to a diff. doctor and said i was ok just in an awkward position... second time i was in a bad accident at 2yrs old and was suppose to be a vegetable but one day i just snapped out of it
Not yet.. Haha.. You will know if that happens tho. haha
Not yet, I am still fairly young
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yes!!
Watching my mom die, then 4 months later my house caught on fire and lost over 15,000 in stuff and 50,000 in damage to my house!! Still working through it, Fire was almost a year ago, and we are still rebuilding, but thats okay, we will have an extra bedroom and bath when its done!!
YES .. in order to LIVE .. and SURVIVE ...
I had to walk AWAY From EVERY THING I earned, owned, had or saved .. both as a Long Term Single .. and during the Short Disaster of a MARRIAGE ...
because that Abusive, Violent Sociopath was actively seeking to KILL ME .. and would have killed the children too IF I HAD NOT LEFT With NOTHING but the Clothes on my back, the car with the shattered windows, and the children covered (along with me) by the shattered auto glass because the Ex (now almost 2 decades post divorce) ... TOLD me 'why don't you just DIE ... (nasty words here) ... I WILL make sure that you NEVER have anything (more nasty words here) .. I will TAKE EVERYTHING Because you "OWE ME" you (more nasty words here) .... He opened up multiple credit accounts in MY NAME and Identifiers -- rang up hundreds of thousands of dollars of bills (Which I HAD to pay .. got stuck with during the divorce) ...
And you know what -- during the divorce he dragged it out -- claimed 'I alienated his affections' -- deflected his affairs onto me .. (I was SOLELY Raising the children -- working full time .. had NO social life at all) ... NO ONE Wanted to help me whatever (because they were AFRAID -- they saw the Damage to my Car, knew he stole another car from me .. knew he damaged my property .. stole from my office, Abused the children under a FORCED order to "let him have unsupervised, unmonitored visitation" ... kept tormenting me down through the years ....
and .. in August 2006 -- he BURGLARIZED my HOME yet again -- this time with the WILLING HELP of the Adult Children (who were making wrong choices in life) .. and
IF NOT for the BLESSING of having BILLS to pay (and yes, I WAS out paying bills) ...
INSTEAD of suffering tens of thousands of dollars of damage to my HOME and THEFTS of MY PROPERTY ...
I would have DIED That day ...
for he LEFT a personal "message" -- he walked through my home ... popped the Electronic Garage Door Lifters (which are ONLY able to be done from INSIDE the home itself -- that is the way I SET it) .. then took the Bins I was using to sort things for Donations ... WROTE his LAST NAME on the BINS .. lined them up from my Dining Room to Kitchen ... was loading them up for a SECOND FULL Truckload .. and ...
when I got back to my HOME ... I FELT some THING Was "wrong" -- I called the Police -- had an officer respond (had to BEG) ... then ...
when walking through the HOME with the Officer (And the Police Car was BEHIND my own in MY Driveway) ...
There, suddenly .. on my Front Patio was ANOTHER Message .. he wasn't done .. and his intent -- to COME BACK again for sure.
I had to BEG the Officer for the REPORT FORM .. I HAD TO BEG to get the officer to stay while I changed MY exterior locks .. I HAD to BEG to submit the Burglary Report ...
and ... no investigation done .. the Ex was ALLOWED to travel from Florida to California WITH MY PROPERTY - which he is using or has sold ... and
I have once again suffered a LARGE Financial Loss ...
Although an Adult Child did beat and abuse me physically just before this Burglary (and I DID Live through that as well) ..
I have NO PEACE of mind .. and .. once again .. I am PAYING the BILLS for the REPAIRS to the THINGS I have -- Like my HOME.
BUT ... I THANK GOD EVERY DAY --- because ... I LIVE .. I BREATHE .. and I am STILL HERE to tell the story of an ABUSE SURVIVOR.