Women...... Does this annoy you......?!
Question: When other women say things like this:
My husband/bf won't LET me do that.
I was just talking with a lady and she said her husband wouldn't LET her cut her hair short.
That annoys me so bad when women let men control their lives like that.
Answers: When other women say things like this:
My husband/bf won't LET me do that.
I was just talking with a lady and she said her husband wouldn't LET her cut her hair short.
That annoys me so bad when women let men control their lives like that.
Yep. I actually used to be one of those women too. Glad I'm not now! I like controlling my own life, it feels good for a change.
some women LOVE a man who is in control...xxx
yes and no....our husbands do the same thing tho!
I have told some people the same thing but just joking around with them but my Fiance knows who wears the pants in the house and who butters his bread
It annoys me a bit - but, hey, it's THEIR life.
OH, I completely agree with you, I also cannot satnd it when people get married and they loose their indiviual identity and say that "WE love that, WE do this...."
its usually the other way around. guys become p-whipped and have to always ask permission from their gf or wife before they can do anything. id rather remain single than become some p-whipped fool. unless she is gorgeous, then i will gladly become whipped.
That's BS. A man can suggest all he wants to. But no one tells me what to do. I don't tell him what to do either.
Men don't control me, i control them. *whips*
well like i still have to listen to my parents i am not old enough to move out
Absolutly. These women obviously have low self esteme.
I like my bf when he takes control. But if he bosses me around, I will not do anything he says!
YES! It makes it seem like he has control over her and she's his property. Thankfully my boyfriend is not like that and I do whatever I want. If he was like that, we wouldn't be together.
I know what you're talking about...In conversation I'll say that phrase, what I actually mean is that he would really hate it if I did a certain thing. I never do anything I'm "told" to do, but if It's something that would irritate him and I don't really care one way or another I go along with it for the sake of peace and harmony. He doesn't get his way that often though. Ya gotta give in once in a while! lol
yes that annoys me. they should be allowed to make their own decisions, its ridiculous how they let theyre husbands run THEIR lives. i would never be like that.
It bugs me, I can't stand it.
In a respectful relationship, both do the same thing. The husband probably LOVES the way she wears her hair and would not see her the same way if she changes it. She respects that.
And other times, the wife will refuse to 'let the husband' do something because she wants to spend time with him or it is an activity that will not be the best for him.
This is normal in committed relationships.
Don't worry: men don't chase after your type. You're safe.
What do they think this is 1952? If that is the kind of man they chose than that is the bed they made....I guess they like laying in it!
It's horrific. But, it works both ways. My fiance recently got back in touch with a good friend of his who drifted while he was with his last girlfriend - for the last 18 months. This guy is wonderful, he's so lovely. On Boxing Day, we were chatting about my 21st birthday party, which I did not invite him to. I explained to him that he was still with this girlfriend at the time and so he wouldn't have come anyway - although I would've loved for him to be there. He nodded and said 'it's fine. There's no way she'd have let me go.' This is a man who is 24 years old.
I know that compromise is paramount in a relationship - for example, you have to take into consideration what your partner might think. I might say 'my boyfriend would kill me if I cut my hair short again', but that's infinitely different to 'my boyfriend wouldn't LET me cut my hair.' I don't believe in possessiveness in relationships unless there is an exceptional cause for it.
Yup.. it sure does even tho if ur married or whatever the case is... u should have control of ur own decisions right?
Ive been with my bf for almost 4 years now and i dont let him boss me around its just not right!!!
Actually, my bf never says that.