Who's the wierdo here? Do tell? (details inside)?!
Question: My BFF just invited me to watch the season premiere of Lost with her. I have a 10 year old son, who has a 9 oclock bedtime, she has a 2 year old son who has an 8 oclock bedtime. She has a hubby, I am a widow. The show is on from 8-10. I told her, I didn't have anyone to stay home with my kid, and invited her to come watch it at my house "well the point was to have my hubby and my kid at home with me, and have you come to my house"
and this is helpful to ME how?
Pardon the rant, but this seems to be a common trend with my friends. All of them have thier baby daddy's around, but i'm the one expected to accommodate their needs....
GRRRRRR
Answers: My BFF just invited me to watch the season premiere of Lost with her. I have a 10 year old son, who has a 9 oclock bedtime, she has a 2 year old son who has an 8 oclock bedtime. She has a hubby, I am a widow. The show is on from 8-10. I told her, I didn't have anyone to stay home with my kid, and invited her to come watch it at my house "well the point was to have my hubby and my kid at home with me, and have you come to my house"
and this is helpful to ME how?
Pardon the rant, but this seems to be a common trend with my friends. All of them have thier baby daddy's around, but i'm the one expected to accommodate their needs....
GRRRRRR
You are what alot of people take for granted. You are the "friend that's always there no matter what" and I can guaruntee they'll be the ones feeling "hurt" or "let down" when you leave them alone and don't bother with them when You find BETTER friends.
I'm always there for people who's not there for me unless there's a reward for them or they have nothing better to do. So I'm getting them out of my life because it's only hurting me and obviously not them. I even had a "friend" that never called or anything, yet one day she calls to get a phone number of a person I have nothing to do with?? No "hey, how's it going, I'd love to hang out sometime..." so I never called her back and I erased her number off of my phone...
Just find someone who DOES care about you because that's not friendship. That's just them treating you like a convenient thing because they think the world revolves around them.
Thanks, I hope you feel better. Report It
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