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Question: You have hurt a really good friend of yours and you didn't mean to but they won't speak to you?

How do you make it up to them??xx


Answers: You have hurt a really good friend of yours and you didn't mean to but they won't speak to you?

How do you make it up to them??xx

I am not going to beat myself up apologizing but I will try by sending an email or an actual card. If no reply I am still going to keep on living.

a 'love' letter with a sincere apology and a hug; if they wont accept that then they weren't really my friend to begin with

The best way I have found is to say your sorry.

ya see that never happened to ME i was always the one my friend was MAD at

talk to them

and if they don't want to talk to you
just keep trying
and soon enough they'll give in and you can explain yourself

Tell them exactly that. A real friend will get over it. Mine generally do, they're now used to being insulted on a daily basis. Severe foot in mouth I fear.

right them a letter, sent them some flowers or stand on their door step and say sorry

What matters is HOW you hurt them and WHY.
If it was unintentional, then they should KNOW that and forgive you.
If it was for their own good, and you're CERTAIN, that person should take the advice, at least with a grain of salt, and consider the necessary change(s).
If it was done out of meanness, then it's up to the one who's been spiteful to fix it.
A "really good friend" - to use your words - WILL forgive and move on to restoring the friendship instead of ignoring the trespasser.

keep calling, keep writing and never give up until this person gives u a chance to apologize. Sometimes a letter is good but i personally think it should be done face to face and keep at it until she gives in and lets you talk to her,

If an apology doesn't work, it is time to move on. You did your part. Don't dwell on it. And, learn from your mistake. ;-)

If you have apologized both verbally and written, but still aren't getting any forgiveness, they weren't a true friend to begin with. Know you tried to do the right thing and were the bigger person. Move on. life's too short.

xx



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