When someone does you wrong,do you get even or let it slide?!
Question: Bide my time and then get even :)
Answers: Bide my time and then get even :)
Usually let it slide.
i get passive aggressive
slide.
let it go...its more damaging to carry a grudge and anger and bad feelings...be happy....They will get what they got coming..
slide
i need forgiveness when i scwer up as well
so why not extend it to others?
Let it slide and then not let it happen again.
depends on what it is that the someone has done, Two wrongs does not make a right.
i let it go after a lil time!
Most of the time I let it go but sometimes I get even
Why just this morning while I was driving to work, I got into slow lane for a turn off ramp then the jerk in front of me slowed down to like 25 MPH in a 55 MPH highway, then as I attempted to pass them they sped up so I cranked up my z24 engine and passed them and they had the nerve to flash me, so I slowed down to 25 MPH till I got off the highway.
I guess it depends on who it is and how close they are to me as to how I deal with it exactly. I don't get even in any case though. I usually let it slide. If it's a complaint regarding a working situation that needs addressing, I'll address it. If it's a close family member or friend I'll confront it sometimes...depends. I'm never vengeful though.
depends who it is...
but hell yeah you get even. or make a point straight away. you dont want people to walk all over you !!
Let it slide , tow bads don't make a good.
It depends. Sometimes, I will let it slide, but most of the time I will straighten it out.
That's your call.
You could either bring him the karma yourself or let God bring the karma which is a lot more destructive.
Because you see, we had a maid once. And this maid was stealing from us. We ask her to give those stuff that she stole back but all she returned were the things that we had given to her.
In hopes of solving the problem, my father talked to her and asked her to just give the stuff back but she denied that she ever stole anything. Our neighbors were sure that she was stealing from us. So we were very confident about the accusation.
My father, instead of filing a complaint in the authorities he instead left the punishment to God.
And then not a day later, Something happened to the maid. Her family had an accident. Unfortunately, the ship that was headed to their home met an accident killing a lot of people including her son and husband.
it was broadcast in the radio the ff. day.
Father visited her after hearing the news. He said that if only she gave back what she stole nothing of this would've ever happened.
We felt sorry for the people who were in the ship but we even felt more sorry for what our maid had lost over stealing. God is Just. He has the right to take and give. Lives.
But then again, don't you think that was a little bit too harsh even for God?
Let it slide.
The Chinese have a saying. If you look for revenge, you better dig 2 graves, one for them and one for you. Getting even is revenge and it can eat you up inside, plus consume your thoughts about the other person. Much better to just let it go
Depending on what they did, if it's bad enough, I just erase them from my life.
Some people don't deserve a second chance.
I forgive them in due course of time the truth is revealed as to who is right and who is wrong.
Why waste time in getting even when we have better things to do in life.
Most times I let it slide. It'll depend on how wrong it was. Once I lost a job because I was accused of stealing. A manager above me wanted to replace me with his friend. He then had to replace his car engine. Yes, I got even.