If a woman finds out her man cheated on her with another woman, why do women con!
Question: ...the other woman knew nothing about you, is completely clueless about the situation - she just fell for a creep...so, as the cheated on woman, why do you get angry at the other woman and try to smash her skull in, when you should really be hitting the guy with a baseball bat????
never understood that...
Answers: ...the other woman knew nothing about you, is completely clueless about the situation - she just fell for a creep...so, as the cheated on woman, why do you get angry at the other woman and try to smash her skull in, when you should really be hitting the guy with a baseball bat????
never understood that...
It's crazy, but I think they believe that the man actually cheating has nothing to do with them, and that if she hadn't have come along and sparked his interest...well he wouldn't have cheated. But we know that's not how it is all the time. I think if a woman goes after the girl...she knows she is going to end up getting back with the creep anyway. I would ask him why...but then i would tell her to keep him.
She is easier and she should have been more careful and he is next.
Are you speaking from experience?
Sorry was not trying to offend...just nosey!!!!
The scorned Woman would always be angry at the "Other Woman" as she would always believe she knew....simple
No I wouldn't care if she didn't know, but I would definately bust out the baseball bat
cause it's more fun to beat up a girl then it is to beat up the man.
Yeah, and they pull each others' clothes and hair and make complete *fools* of themselves, when really they should both get together and whup HIS butt.
Me either. Go after the real culprit -the guy.
I never understood it either... people don't make sense!
because although she's really angry with the cheating guy, her instinct is to attack the outsider first.
Girl...he's next in line!!
I'm grateful to have not experienced that and I'm 29/married. But anyway, I wouldn't care about the other woman - I would be angry at the guy and I would leave him immediately.
Hmmmm....never understood that either.
to ck out the competition, to see if she is better looking or younger or what ever.
and also it always takes two to tango
because women are too forgiving and dont truley want to believe the man they love could hurt them like that, by getting mad at the ho, then she can delude herself into thinking it wasnt the man's fault, he was lured away by some vixen by no fault of his own, and the cheater DOESNT discourage it!
i think because it hurts too much to confront him,
that we can get a lot of our anguish and pain out
by informing the woman that he isn't single.
I choose to beat them both with a baseball bat.
Him for being a cheat, her for helping him be a cheat...theyr'e both to blame...most girls aren't clueless...
My Ex cheated on me with a girl who said "well we've been screwing for 2 months and he told me he was going to break up with you", i mean as big of a lie as he told (i tried to break things off several times and he begged me not to), he still admitted we were still together and she proceeded to screw him anyway...
bats.. are hard!!! oooch!!
jeeez you r a bit overthinking violence!!
I couldn't agree with you more. Now on a personal note, one of my husband's ex's followed him cross country. She knew that he was married and that I was pregnant. She deserved an @ss kicking.
Same reason men beat up the other man instead of just going to a lawyer and getting their trollop wife served with divorce papers.
I definatly think that she should b slamming his head with a bat cuz she didnt know and just cuz she is a whore doesnt mean that u can take it out on the clulesss women u should b hurting the guy.
it's a fair fight with a women most men are big then women
Yes- it makes no sense at all. i asked my girlfriend who is a psychiatrist and she said it's called "transference". You don't want to pour the wrath on someone you "love" and is supposed to love you. That's reallly painful and has loads of ramifications, so you pour out your fury on the stranger instead. The victim may not be aware that they are doing this.
It could work with other relationships as well. i.e. You hate your mother-in-law for certain miserable behaviours, but it's your spouse that "enables " her. Yet, you don't blame the spouse for the whole situation, you blame the in-law.
say it your bestfriend & you told her that your men when you frist told her about him & she just huge you own to the point you do't whant nobody around you & your men .like you ask him if she liked him & he keep saying no then they try around & whind up and bed toghter that women always go for the other women & not the men .
I've been asking that question forever and ever...lol....I think I saw that episode though..lol...I'd definitely be beatin that *** if it woulda been my husband...I'd try and throw his butt all in the camera...now if she KNEW then I"d have to give her the business too...
I never understood that either!
My wife pretty much told me from jump that she'd come after ME and not the other woman...
Because the woman selfishly does not want to end the relationship with the man, so she takes out her frustration on the woman, when it in reality should be directed toward the man.
I'd go for the guy unless it was like my best friend then I'd go for her and come back for him
Well in my case the other women did know about me. One was family, so how could she not have known about me? I didn't confront them, but I thought about it really hard! lol I just kicked his @ss out!
You know, I figured you were watching the show Cheaters. Some friends and I were watching this past Saturday and it was refreshing to see the wronged woman get all up in her cheating boyfriend's grill and leave the unaware other woman alone.
We got into a discussion about why some women do that. The only male in the room suggested that maybe the woman is so focused on the other woman being competition that she fails to see that the woman was not the person that betrayed her trust.
i don't , I blame the cheating man....I hate when someone blames the wrong party..Kind of like the father molests the daughters and everyone focuses on the where was the mother...passing the buck i guess is easier.
Perhaps they don't want to face the fact that he isn't the man they thought he was and can't be trusted. If that is true then they'd be facing losing a relationship they feel they really need. And they're not ready to let him go.
Maybe she's thinking, "Oh, if she (the other woman) wouldn't have been such the hissy that she is, he wouldn't have been tricked." That sort of thinking keeps one in denial away from the fact that their relationship is waist deep in you know what!