Why are some people so *&%$ mean??!


Question: Blame the parents. People are largely the product of their upbringing.

I was born in 1962, and my parents taught me a great deal about manners, and empathy, and being kind to others, and etiquette, and finding joy in life, and being courteous even to strangers, and always giving someone a second chance to make a first impression. These are terrific things, and it really feels good to practice them.

I very, very rarely observe parents nowadays imparting these qualities on their children. When I do, it's wonderful to see -- but again, it's a rarity.

Frankly, I see a lot of parents wanting to be their child's friend! What a ghastly concept. The child doesn't need an adult friend -- it needs a parent, an authority figure, someone to learn from. My parents used plenty of discipline -- I don't mean physical force, but rather the taking away of privileges, in order to correct bad behavior and instill in me that actions have consequences. Jeez, I can't tell you how many times I've seen an unruly child in a store with their parent wearily saying, "Junior, please stop doing that, ok?" Good God, "ok"??? That's essentially giving the child a choice of whether to behave.

Anyhow, regarding mean people, I think it's a safe bet their parents taught them nothing about being kind -- or may very well have abused them. Truly sad.


Answers: Blame the parents. People are largely the product of their upbringing.

I was born in 1962, and my parents taught me a great deal about manners, and empathy, and being kind to others, and etiquette, and finding joy in life, and being courteous even to strangers, and always giving someone a second chance to make a first impression. These are terrific things, and it really feels good to practice them.

I very, very rarely observe parents nowadays imparting these qualities on their children. When I do, it's wonderful to see -- but again, it's a rarity.

Frankly, I see a lot of parents wanting to be their child's friend! What a ghastly concept. The child doesn't need an adult friend -- it needs a parent, an authority figure, someone to learn from. My parents used plenty of discipline -- I don't mean physical force, but rather the taking away of privileges, in order to correct bad behavior and instill in me that actions have consequences. Jeez, I can't tell you how many times I've seen an unruly child in a store with their parent wearily saying, "Junior, please stop doing that, ok?" Good God, "ok"??? That's essentially giving the child a choice of whether to behave.

Anyhow, regarding mean people, I think it's a safe bet their parents taught them nothing about being kind -- or may very well have abused them. Truly sad.

yup.

cause they f*ckin suck

cause their mad and take it out on someone else.

becuase they can or you are mean to them too...

HAHAHa... chill out babe ;)

The world is a reflection of one's self.

Same reason some people are overly sensitive

In general for most people its easier

Cause they are fuckin losers!!!!!!!!!

It's a law.

b/c they can be

Becasue they are not happy and the want to make others feel the same.

cause there !@#$ losers!!!

cuz ur such a loser thay cant help it

it's the fat in the body, it interferes with hormones.

Probably B/C they either had a rough childhood, a rough life, or maybe they just don't give a damn.

People are mean because they are miserable b*tches!!

Mean people suck! :)

Cause they are uptight and have a stick up their @$$.

Most people in R&S and P&S are.

A lot of not serious questions get uptight answers it's just annoying.

usually because they don't like themselves very much so in order to make them feel better about themselves, they have to bring everyone else down.

Why are some people such sissies?

cuz they r just weird lol
jk...well i guess some ppl just protecting themselves
but others r just jerks or bitches

well, i treat other as i want to be treated =]

unless they piss me OFF, then im pretty @#$@$ mean >=)

On here, on in life in general?
On here, it's easy to hide behind a computer screen and be nasty, as no-one can get to you.
In life in general, well, there has to be mean people to help balance out the nice people.

because they can there tw*ts n rnt worth your time hun fu*k em all!!

because of the immaturity running rampid in society today

(((birds brain))) & reology + reality = illusion




WELL they are angery @ someone or themselfs!!

because.....................they just are very mean and they are mean and there mean sooooooooooooooo they are because they are im afraid =P BY THE WAY THERE IS NO REASON TO SWEAR

because they are sad and their life prolly sucks,but well my life sucks too and im not mean,they should stay in their house if they cant have a bad day

I think most of them were born that way. Actually, they are unhappy in their life and are miserable and they want everybody else to be like that too so they take their frustrations out on the rest of us.

cous their parent treaded them like dis, so dey think is normal...



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