Guys, I need help!!?!
Question: I had lied to my bf about an ex bf and told him the truth now, after our 2 years of relationship.
he is deeply hurt and i want to make something to heal his heart and show my love and commitment!! what can i do?
Answers: I had lied to my bf about an ex bf and told him the truth now, after our 2 years of relationship.
he is deeply hurt and i want to make something to heal his heart and show my love and commitment!! what can i do?
Aw sorry to hear you are in a bit of a pickle sweetie.
First you need to know that we all make these kind of mistakes. Don't be too hard on yourself. As long as you did not cheat on your guy, a little lie in the beginning of a relationship needs to be forgiven.
Tell your BF you love him - now more than ever and if it came up again you would not do the same thing over. Then step back and give him a bit of time to get over this. Don't mention it again, unless he has a question. He should see by your actions now that you are trustworthy.
If for some reason he keeps bringing it up you do need to stop him. Just simply tell him that you do not want to keep talking about it. It needs to be dealt with and put away forever. Otherwise it will be used against you over and over - and you don't deserve that.
Peace and joy to you dear.
It is hard to get that trust back. Just show him that you love him on a daily basis, and over time, he will forgive you. Good luck.
just give him time to get over it and reasure him. I dont think gifts are the answer
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talk to him
tell him how you really feel. be honest to him now.
Also tell him why did you lie to him in the first place.
he might need some time.. be calm and it might be hard in the beginning. i believe he will see that you really love him and that mistake will be forgiven and forgotten.
wish u all the best and i hope things will be better for you two.
why I'll be danged - now why in tarnation would you have gone done a thing like that?
He is jsut shocked right now and is acting how anybody else would react you would 2 so dont blame him... He is hurt that you have lied to him and if he loves you he will get over it... you shouldnt worry to much as long as you both love eachother everything will be fine but for hte time being hang in there or maybe talk to a close friend about it to keep you comfortable and calm. Goodluck
thats tough.... good luck.
First you need to ask yourself why you lied to your new boyfriend there has to be a reason.do you still have feelings for the old bf.he has a right to be angry,a couple is supposed to be honest with each other .You have to have trust ,honesty in a relationship.explain why you fibbed to him let him know by your actions that you love him cause your words proballly dont mean much at this time.Time does heal all wounds.he will come around.in the mean time show him how you love him.
Well he is just JEALOUS, be very tender and caring this time stay close even if he says bad words to u that might hurt u, men behave like kids in these situations
Position ur confession to him, although I believe that was a stupid thing to do, as u loving him so much and and wanted to tell him everything because u believe that is his right and that u r an honest person
Believe me he will get over it