How has ANGER affected, your LIFE?!
Question: ...your personal relationship?
...interaction with others?
...is it bad, good or depends(explain)?
Answers: ...your personal relationship?
...interaction with others?
...is it bad, good or depends(explain)?
It affects everything. From my mood at work, to the way I drive my car, to the amount of shopping I do. Anger is a terrible emotion that can destroy a person if they are not strong. I have had my fair share of anger in my life, and work pretty much daily to not let it overcome me.
It foolishly ended a 25 year marriage, many regrets that I let it get the best of me.
It landed me in a heap of trouble in a lot of situations. That's all there is to know, really.
it keeps me pissed off all of the time.But i am learning to control it better now.
I keep my anger bottled in which is not a good thing.
It has gotten me into a lot of fights with my fiance and my family. I have a bad temper and I hold grudges. I'm trying to work on it.
it ended a relationship i had with someone i really loved. i don't typically like other ppl. it used to be bad, but i've got a handle on it now.
I have a very good temper.. (AT LEAST I LIKE TO THINK THAT)
My anger can be shown at times when it needs to . and i control it ..
I am a calm understanding guy.. But if anyone has been trying to intentionally p*ss me off, theyll get it.
I think thats a good thing then people know im friendly and easy to get along with, but know when to draw the line and not take it too far :)
My ex put a hole in the wall with a flower pot I bought her. I spent 2 days fixing it after the big D.
it makes my relationship a little harder because when im angry i shut down and wont communicate
it doesnt affect my interaction with others much because i avoid everyone until i cool down
it's not good because anger can cause unnecessary stress
no i'm not really an angry person tbh.
sad to say, but it has ended some close friendships, but glad I'm no longer friends with them. I guess it depends on the situation because it's good to get all those negative emotions out.
it landed me in the pin for 5 years and i still have 4 years on paper to walk down ....so it has efected my life and my family
im very calm,but have a explosive temper if the right butttons are pushed,yes it has changed many things for the good and bad in my life.................
it use to but not anymore.
i just have this blood boiling anger at my mother and have since she divorced my dad and now shes engaged to a fricking LOSER from HE!! .. that is really my only anger. and it has sent me into thereapy and into takeing medication which is not right. we get along but as soon as i hear any thing about this trailor living fast food eating man i LOSE IT!!!! and we have SCREAMING fights!!!! and i have nightmares where im kiling her for being so stupid.
it stopped me and my cousin from never talking again and it has stopped some people from liking me.......
I stabbed a friend of mine because he smacked my girlfriends *** and I was pissed off already.
So I have charges now
oh i've been having problems with my family because of my short temper! well i'm still working on that one...
it effected my relationship with my parents, im not normally and angry person with anyone but with them i found i was and now im to stubborn to try building back those bridges!
To the point where I'm damned for life...
I tell you a story this is true
I was in a treatment center for drugs and alchole and they have classes there that your counselor puts you in well they put me in a anger managment class and when they said it out loud who was going to have to take the class every one laughed because I was the last one they exspected to go so I said is there a reason why you want me to go to this class and my counselor said yes you have a problem with anger you don't show any I see people walking over you and you let it go you tell us about your past that is very dramatic but have a smile on your face you need to to be scared of your emoitions there are more emoitions then just happy and sad
out of control anger (abuse/domestic violence):
caused my divorce, damaged my kids
led to severe post traumatic stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, drug and alcohol abuse
the outcome is not good.
My psychologist tells me I am full of anger but he understands why. It interfears with my whole life cause I keep it bottled up. He says we should work on it but something else always comes up that needs worked on more. He says I am a simmering pot and one day I will explode. So I guess it has affected every aspect of my life and still is.
I've taken out my bad mood on my kids, and then when I see them arguing afterwards, I know it was because of the "trickle down effect" of my crappy mood. That makes me feel terrible!
I sometimes wonder if this hyper-paced, consumer driven, over-achieving society of our's makes me crazy like this. My husband has to work in a city that's way too expensive for us because of the nature of his job. (We live int he L.A. area, and he works in entertainment.) We don't live near family. I think I wouldn't be so angry/frustrated if I knew family was near by to help. Or just to offer emotional support! Raising kids away from a community of loved ones just doesn't feel right. As wonderful as my friends are, it really isn't the same. I can't expect them to help me the way an immediate family might.
Anger towards the craziness in this world has made me more cautious (especially with my child). I lost two good friends a month apart a couple years ago (both at the wrong place at the wrong time). Those experiences affected me in a way that I no longer take my son out at night (to the store, etc), and I worry every time my fiance goes out.
You never know what each day will bring.
This is a heads up! I posted a very similiar question
and it got removed as I received a violation notice.
For some odd reason they don't like the word, "ANGER"
being used. So, you might want to remove this question before Yahoo! does? Just looking out.
To answer your marvelous question: anger had, and I
use had because that is all a part of my distant past;
caused me a previous marriage and loss time with my children. Didn't really interact with others well to begin with.
And anger is never consrtuctive/good because it leads to
bad choices, bitterness/resentment, violence, mental/
emotional/physical abuse, assault, profanity in front of the children, murder, incarceration, drinking and driving, etc.,
etc., etc.,.It can also lead to illnesses and suicide.
Anger just doesn't affect your life..it affects everyone whom you encounter. It's poison. And it's toxic. And it's causing
society to gradually lose its pulse and decompose.
Peace xxx Joy