Married People: Do you have a checking/savings account your spouse doesn't k!
Question: Oh yeah...I think I snitched on myself answering your last question though...lol
Answers: Oh yeah...I think I snitched on myself answering your last question though...lol
Yes
No, that's hiding from being 100% honest with your spouse.
No
no
Nope! have no reason to....
nope!
Nope. That would be dishonest.
I have a savings account......
No - we have our own accounts and a joint acc which all the household bills, mortgage etc go from!
No secrets here!
My wife can smell money, so hail no i don't.
Yes I do. Otherwise I wouldn't have a penny to spend even on gifts for my kids!
No, we have a joint account and if I were to open my own I'd let my spouse know about it. I believe that if you're hiding your own account, it's meaning you don't trust your partner. Why would you hide it if you trust them? Maybe it's b/c they spend too much, don't know how to save or you're planning on travelling away with that hunk Julio but eiher way, it's a lack of trust and that's no marriage.
When we first got together, we kept our own accounts but when we married, we closed them and did a joint account. We did so, in the event of something happening to my husband I have access to his account. We've seen in events of death that people unless they have joint access, can't get in for months to their account and usually with a lot of paperwork and lawyers.
No, we trust each other
No. But I do donate money on the sly. He is not much into Charity, so I have to save 20.00 a week and hide it in an envelope.
yes, you bet I do
Yes! and that's only because me and my hubby went through some trials in our 7 year marriage where now I gotta make sure my back up plan is on point just like I do my marriage!!!
Actually he knows but he know its mines and he don't care its not a betrayal type thing its just my personal space and we all have to have something for hard times.
i have done that , it's a good way to put away + save for something , holidays etc. if you don't like your relationship you need to do it
Yes
I think a lot of spouses, husbands and wives, should have a separate account that the other doesn't know about. There are a lot of control freaks out there, it seems especially with guys (it's also called insecurity) who think they have to control the wife's finances. I don't think it is always appropriate to do so but if the husband or wife feels like their life is being controlled then they should have something to fall back on. I don't think it's lying or being dishonest or nonforthcoming with your spouse. If you need it you need it.