What would u think of someone who?!


Question: has been hit as a child, grew up in homeless shelters cause dad left when was 4 years old, grew up being teased, was tormented by older sister, had straight a's til they hung out with older crowd, then skipped 100 days of school, flunking that grade, then dropping out of high school at age 15. smoked pot when peer pressured, used to sit in room and dream of another life....
sister always got attention,even though she was bad, got on the tv show cops and mom too, dad was even on cops for shooting someone. was anorexic to the extreme for 4 years. then had a bout with bulimia.
what would u think of this person?
do u think they were just caught up in the life they grew up in, and really is a good person?

do you think they can be mentally sane?


Answers: has been hit as a child, grew up in homeless shelters cause dad left when was 4 years old, grew up being teased, was tormented by older sister, had straight a's til they hung out with older crowd, then skipped 100 days of school, flunking that grade, then dropping out of high school at age 15. smoked pot when peer pressured, used to sit in room and dream of another life....
sister always got attention,even though she was bad, got on the tv show cops and mom too, dad was even on cops for shooting someone. was anorexic to the extreme for 4 years. then had a bout with bulimia.
what would u think of this person?
do u think they were just caught up in the life they grew up in, and really is a good person?

do you think they can be mentally sane?

wow do you know me? all that is tru but the cops thing...we didnt get on the show but we were on the news :-S I turned my life around...find out that what they made me to be isnt who I am...now that im older I can choose what I want to do rather then be pressured....

i would pray for that person above all else.

I think they need help. I found help at the New Life Evangelistic Center in Missouri, let me tell you, a bunch of winners, except for the chainsaw accident last week...

I would think they got delt a bad hand.. and that they needed guidance.

You (or they) are a victim of their circumstances. Of course they are sane and probably a really good person... they just need real love from people that genuinely care about them.

I would think that that person had a horrible life, but if they want to break that cycle they could. As long as you let go and not blame your childhood for the life you have now I think you can make something of your self.

probably got caught up in the life they were stuck in. but there's always a chance to get out and make things better for yourself!

i think that that person has gone through a lot of things, and sometimes was at the wrong place at the wrong time, but maybe deep inside they are good and they can change their lifestyle and start out new.

Yes, I do think they can be sane. Its all up to the person....and who they want to be as an adult. I would feel bad for them, and want to get them away from all the negative things in their life. People can be successful, even after a terrible childhood.*

i think tehy walked in to it , it is not their fault. If it is you, I feel really bad for you! Hearing this makes me want to donate stuff to charities...

People deal with things differently. I am sure this person will need counseling, but can lead a normal life. It is all about DEALING with the issues you have and then getting passed them.

Yes they can be mentally sane because their are people who have been through that and have over come it. Its a sad tragic life yes because it not the child fault but all you have to do is strive for the better and you can achieve it. If that happened to you then I am sorry you had to go through that. Just stay strong and keep your head up because it will get better.

i think they need councelling and a hug

ya i do...would love to try to help them....they deserve to have someone care about who they are and what they can become with help...everybody deserves a shot at a good life....so with a bit of love, compassion and help so does this person.

There are many people that have a hard knock life. It turns out how you want it to though. The person made bad choices, but we all do at some point. This person needs to get help and good friends that don't pressure them into a spot where a bad choice is likely.

I would feel pity for that person. I do think they were a good person but were hanging in the wrong crowd.

I feel really bad that they were caught up in others mistakes and didn't have the support to not do the bad and harmful to themself things that they did. I think they are probably a good person that DOES need support and counseling and I hope they reach out and get it because it seems like that is what they want! I think they would need that counseling to continue to get better mentally and make their life better. Good luck to this person whether it is you or not!

depends on what they can do with the proper help if possible

I would think they were feeling sorry for themselves and waiting for someone else to turn their life around. Does this person think they are the only one to have a bad life growing up. They are sane enough to do something about their circumstances, they just lack initiative. If they want to change their life bad enough they will. If not then let them sit around feeling sorry for themselves. My life was no bed of roses either but I don't sit around feeling sorry for myself, I look for someone to help me and I keep looking until I find it.

I think they could be mentally sane, if they are strong enough.
However, think that the whole situation is bad, and sad =((
But, you have to remember that there are people that are worse off than you are.

I think you are a product of your enviroment. I think your a good person that needs some help dealing with all these toxic people in their life. Good luck honey.

This is not the child's fault,this is the result of extreme abandonment,abuse and neglect in a violence oriented home,aka dysfunctional big time.
The person now has to deal with the effects of said upbringing and as soon as possible to prevent long term disabling ptsd,anxiety disorders,etc.\
There is help,mental health centres,Women's Centres, self help groups,such as Adult Children of Alcoholic and Dysfunctional Families,etc.
I reached out for help young,and learned a lot,it has made my life so much better,and my definition of healthy living and attitude turned right around.
Again,I stress it's not the child's fault,but help is out there,and will make the difference to the rest of this persons life.

well that person probably is a good person but you still have to think about there background everything my be bottled up in side getting ready to explode so you never know if they r a good person they probably went like there emotions show i could b that they r still cought up in the life style they grew up in

I would think, no more, or no less, but rather think that person should take ; A bad thing, and turn it into a life survival course.
- Thank god, I survive that life of pain & heart ache
- I will, and have become a better person then my abuser's
- I AM A SURVIVOR
- I AM STRONG
- I AM ALIVE
And yes you are mentally sane, just come intact with bag & baggage; Has been dealt a bad hand.
Once said to me, by my older son, and at my lowest time of life; When all my life's bad ordeals, "Mom, when you have been giving lemon, Make lemonade." Wise son, and never forget them words.

This kind of person can, and will survive keeping that thought in mind, trying not to go back to the bad sad days....
Hard to do, but with good guidance, counseling, and a strong shoulder to lead / cry on will do just fine.
Laugh more, cry less often ....
Smile for all it's worth ;-)



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