Have You Ever "Cheated"?!
Question: On Your Online BF or GF, if you ever had one that is?
"Real Life" answers are okay too...
Answers: On Your Online BF or GF, if you ever had one that is?
"Real Life" answers are okay too...
It all really "depends" on what your "MORAL" views are on "Cheating"..lol...I feel that internet relations w/ opposite sex and certain actions, and words to "lead"the other on that youre goin to "give them" "MORE" than really are..or lying,keeping secrets from your signicifant Other/Spouse to me are "cheating"..Ive done none of those because I do believe that if you "promise" whether in Matrimony / or to your "significant other/Partner" that you are theirs, and only "theirs"..Thats the way it should be..There should "be" no other..of its likeness..Thats what keeps me or anyone like me from "getting in trouble'..My husband had different views..on this matter..When he found out that It could harm our marriage..he wouldnt even think of it today or anyother day..Its very important to keep " the communication Lines" open in any relationship..and keep NO SECRETS, NO LIES FOR THEYLL CATCHUP IN THE LONG RUN..FOR THE TRUTH ALWAYS"COMES OUT IN THE END"..!...Look up the stats..Theres a Virtural reality game called Second Life..Alot of spouses/Significant others cheat on eachother in there...Theres alot of partnerships in there.. for example I know of alot of people in there that have been hurt..I know someone whose husband was married in rl..and had a sl partner..The rl wife found out that he was married in sl to someonelse ..Another Woman!!..and she divorced him immediately..Alot feel that sl is "just a game" but "forget" that its not..its the hearts of the humans "running the Avatars" in that virtural game..Ive talked to counslers and theyve claimed that this is a new behavior that theyve never embarked on..Its quite interesting how..People Perceive actual "cheating" on their Partners.../Significant others..in the internet..and chatting in Messenger...I chat w/ other men..Im just careful..what I "chat" about..My husbands always welcome to do a "conference w/ me" , hes always there for me and Im always there for him..He has female friends, and the awesome part about it is I know his friends and he knows mine..in fact we type to eachothers friends..that way theres not a "suspicion" w/ eachother...Were always open..If theres something that he or I am concerned about..in terms of "cheating"..we talk about it..It wasnt always this way..It takes communication and practice to get to know your partner and how they feel what "cheating" really is..for example We all know that a form of "cheating is "physically sleepin around w/ other than significant other/spouse/partner..that is a given!..But really think about it..there are other forms of infedelities..ie..internet ..chat rooms, Virtual Reality worlds..like sl,(secondlife), Coworkers , flirting with in sexual content, leading on "other than your partner" telling them you will give them something that you shouldnt be"..Straying away from your spouse, signicifant other or partner w/ your thoughts..theres all kinds of "cheating" commiting of infedelities..I have a friend that considers "dirty dancing" w/ other than her husband is "cheating"..I also have another friend that considers it "cheating" when her husband calls his female friends.."Babe, Love, Hun, and so on ...Words to others can have an impact on their significant other,spouse or partner..Bodily movements towards others than your spouse, significantother/partner..The way you Kiss and Hug someonelse other than your spouse, significant other, and partner can have a bearing..on whether they classify it "cheating or not"..so theres all kinds out in this world today that Im aware of..back in the "olden days"..these were thought of..or they were done..in "hiding"..lol...I look at it this way...Always, Always....consider Your Mate..COMMUNICATE and KEEP NO SECRETS, AND FIND OUT WHAT THEYRE VIEW OF "CHEATING" INFEDILITIES REALLY ARE..ALONG W/ YOURS..MAKE UP SOME RULES..AND STICK BY THEM , So no suspicions are there ....;)....God bless Lori...take care..lol;)
yes
lol, well considering that i have about 20 of them.........
Nope never, i cant see how anyone can cheat whether online or not? i was well still am really, married for 13 yrs and as much as i didnt really love him i still never ever thought about it......once a cheater always a cheater in my eyes..
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I got caught in bed with my girlfriends mom
wow sugarboo you're cheatin on me.... we just met.... lol... anyway no i havent cheated on an "online GF" i dont like those too much... but lori answer this question...
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The whole concept of online fidelity is just a tad moronic. It boils down to "I promise not to cheat on my spouse with anyone but you."
Uhhh....okay.
Never, I don't cheat!
i can answer real life--i have never had an online gf
but i suppose whatever makes 2 people happy ....
when i was young pre 23 i cheated on girlfriends and really didnt think much of it -i wasnt very nice- then i started dating a girl who did it
to me ---once u realize the pain it causes and all the other emotions that go with it - jealousy-insecurity-anger-ect
i dont think anyone should have to go thru it---
if u are that unhappy with someone they deserve
the respect of you breaking up with them before u move on.
Nope, never cheated.
Well...ya...
Gosh no! I would never cheat on someone! Besides, I've only ever had one boyfriend, and I didn't cheat. I am totally against cheating. I am a very loyal person.
~Miss Frenchie xx
no
i wouldn't put 'girl friend' , and 'online' in the same sentence....... as one does not equate the other.