I don't get involved.
NEVER............I DON'T GET INVOLVED!!
I just tell them not to involve me.
you tell them that you think they should figure this one out on their own...you had nothing to do with it in the first place, and youre not going to now...thats what i would do.
get the boxing gloves ready
Well first of all I would not consider them friends if they tried to involve me into there issues Good Luck
Hopefully they try to bribe my friendship with expensive gifts...if not, just ignore them for awhile...
ignore them both.
I never choose a side or another. I'd rather remain friends with both of them and if that's not possible I leave them both. I hate those types of drama in my life
I back away until the smoke clears.
if they are true friends...
they will not make you choose sides..
i know from experience....
My best friend is also friends with my cousin who i no longer speak with... but if she wants to be friends with her ..
its her decision...
Choose your own side and that way at least you will be happy.
I point and say look at that.
i tell them i wont pick....and for them to figure it out on thier own..........
...my initial reaction is severe...distance...from both...but tell them why so they will know...it may take some time, but they will resolve their feud without you, often with an apology
i first hear both if their sides, and if i think one of them is completely wrong ill tell them straight up, but if im not sure, then i wouldnt get involved and let them handle it
In the end I had two situations like this growing up and everntually between the two I found the true trouble maker plus I new the other person longer etc...
and in the second case I saw that one person was not acting rationally so I cut her off forever and sided with the friend that was in the right at the time.............
I defend whoever is right, normally the other person cuz i hate being put in that position...My two best friends hated eachother, but they seem to be getting off well now...thank god/
might be time to get a couple of new friends....
I make them bribe me.
I usually try to help out both, I try to help them both make peace with each other and just tell the straight truth. I don't choose a side and if they just get mad at me for helping then I stay out of it
?.blondy
I sit them both down and let them know that I care about them and how they feel, but I'm not getting involved. I'll tell them there will be times I'm with one, and not the other. I'm not going to lie or choose sides. If they are about me, they won't put me in that position. If they insist, then I guess I'll be finding new friends.