How long do you hold on to a relationship that will never become a future realit!
Question: not very long when i see it isnt going to happen then i just stop
Answers: not very long when i see it isnt going to happen then i just stop
actually sometimes too long
sometimes I cant accept that it wont be anything in the future
Too long! Way too long.
15 minutes
Atleast 2 years
It's time to move on....
Hey, don't knock it. Some people marry into those situations. I think it's called a 'comfortable' marriage.
not very long
let it go
My average was 7 weeks. I can usually tell by then...
never
Until I can't take it another second and let go.
Untill you go out and meet new people and until you and your partner come to the conclusion that you need other people and your future isnt going to work out for you.
You don't - no reason you should want to
12 years has been the longest, I just let go of the idea of us being together last month after hoping for 12 years
what?
why will it never be a reality in the future?
Long enough to make sure you are right in ending it!!!
Till my dying day
And then some
I just got out of a relationship that lasted over 9 years. I should've realized it wouldn't go anywhere after 4, so I guess my answer is 5 years.
i held onto mine for 2 n half years then let go off it...n now im with someone i really want 2 be with n who wants to be with me...
it hurts so sooner u do it the better
I hold on to a relationship that has no future for way to long.
Don't....Just let it go. Time is too precious and life is too short to hold on to something you know doesn't have a future. It's not fair to you or the other person involved.
LOONG
Way too long! It's been about 8 months and I am just now starting to really let go..
I held on for 13 years.....until he passed away last year.
However, I must say that we dated 14 years ago and split for different reasons. Timing was off. But after a couple of years, we started seeing each other again (while dating other people). We continued this for many years -- knowing that it would never work out for the two of us. His girlfriend moved in with him about 9 years ago and then I met my husband 7 years ago (we've been married for 5). And I must say that even though I love my husband very much, it has never compared to what I felt for my ex.
I don't know how long I would have held on to that relationship if he hadn't passed away. But I imagine it would have taken my death to end it.
Dont waste the time that you dont even own. You never know where you'll be minutes from now so why waste your time on people who take those precious seconds for granted. Every morning every night every breath is a blessing.
Too long
?.blondy
? As long as I can.
I suggest you don't hold on to it for too long. I'm currently experiencing that situation. It's not going anywhere and it's just a sad, sad thing to know you have to move on.
The biggest regret will always be being in it for too long. When I asked myself the same question you just asked, that's when I knew :(
Relationships are what you make of it. If you're HOLDING ON, then you're not really doing much, are you?