How do you really know if someone is...?!
Question: "the one." Or is "the one" really a myth?
Answers: "the one." Or is "the one" really a myth?
When you feel their happiness comes before your happiness, and they feel the same exact way about your happiness coming first before their own. Only then are you both the one for each other.
If he is the one for you, but you are not the one for him, then ask yourself, is he really the one for me, or am I just fooling myself?
Best to find out now, instead of later.
Only when your found them....I haven't..
if it feels right, you will know.
You don't...
It's a big risk...
Welcome to "The Pool of Love..."
Jump right in...
The water's...well...we have no idea how the water is...hot or cold...guess you'll have to find out...
"Cannonball!"
Splash!
Let me know when you figure this out.
I think there are lots of "the one" for every one and that we just kind of grab something when we're ready.
Ask yourself this very important question:
"If I marry this person, would I be willing to deal with them for the rest of my life, including all of their faults, without trying to change any of them?" If the answer is yes, you have found your "one."
Your question is one of the big mysteries of life! <smiling> I don't think any one person can fulfill every emotional need, even in a close relationship. But when/if you find that person who you truly feel is "the one", I think there's something instinctively that should assure you that "they are the one long term".Sometimes emotions say this is the one but I think there are questions to ask yourself even when it does"feel" right.. Are you truly compatible long term? Do you share similar outlooks on life? Can you trust them, can they trust you? Sometimes what you can ignore/tolerate now, might end up being an irritant/ divider later. Differences can be fine, and one persons differences can compliment the other, but how big are the differences?Do you share similar values? Is one an optimist, one a pessimist? Does someone already try to "change" you, or do they accept you and appreciate your uniqueness? Do you really love the person or love the image of what you want them to be?. I think when someone has constant lingering doubts in a growing relationship it's wise to proceed slowly and see how you really work through issues with one another. No doubt about it when you find someone that you can share a deep love and commitment with, it can be "Oh so good" but really, only the individuals themselves can determine if they are " the one" they want to share they're life with.