When is it reasonable for a woman to ask her man not to socialize with another p!
Question: only when you are certain that she would try to steal it. I usually can't make such demands, they limit the freedom of the person I love...
Answers: only when you are certain that she would try to steal it. I usually can't make such demands, they limit the freedom of the person I love...
It's always reasonable
Yeah. I don't see why not.
If she has a good reason.
when that other women is a whore, or if you just do not get along with that b*tch
when there's a history there
When the other woman obviously is trying to steal your man away or if she's just a skank in general.
if there's a good reason anytime
After the first time she meets him, then she can lock him up, beat him, torture him, oh wait....that was a movie...
If his association with this woman makes you uncomfortable then you should definitely tell him about it. I am sure he would let you know his feelings if the shoe was on the other foot!
When he's sober....all agreements are null & void once the alcohol starts flowing
after you have been together for a few months. You also have to think he knew her before he knew you? If that is the case. Just tell him it bothers you and be open. Don't go into it demanding. That's always bad and not effective.
never unless their socialization involves getting naked.
If the other woman has an 'agenda' the man should not need be asked.
when he or she are showing personal interest...
I have to answer from the other perspective. I have never asked my wife to not socialize with another man. I have expressed my 'concerns' once, but she is an adult and I trust her. Therefore, the decision is hers to make. I only expressed my thoughts because I felt he was trying to use her and could wind up making things bad. But...
It's reasonable if this particular woman shoves her who-haas in yer man's face whenever she sees him!!
That's a good question.. I think if a woman was making obvious advances, or being outrageously flirty with him, making her desires known, I would ask him to distance himself a bit, because it was making me uncomfortable. Ultimately I trust my husband and feel pretty secure with our relationship, so I really can't picture myself asking him not to speak to someone.
always!!!!!!
When she starts charging him too much.
When there is flirting involved or if it's an ex that wants back into their lives. And of course if it makes her uncomfortable. I myself would never do anything like this especially knowing that it would upset my fiance. We trust each other and know that neither is going to do anything to betray that trust.
when he keeps socializing with her too much and they are getting flirty towards one another. This is a sign of a red light, and you should put a stop to it.
i gave you a star because it is a good question
HOWEVER, you should not be demanding and limit his freedom just like he has no right to tell you who you can't talk to.
BUT, if this other woman makes you uncomfortable, you can talk to him about it at anytime. you can tell him how she gives you dirty looks or that she doesn't like you at all. that's what my girlfriend does. she thinks that this other girl that's one of my best friends is after me. but my GF real,ly trusts me and doenst really worry about it even though it really bothers her
but talk to him about it. there is no reason why he should question the reason you are asking him all this stuff. if he has nothing to hide, then he has nothing to fear!
-----BonEThuG
On their honeymoon.
I know I wouldn't have to ask my boyfriend not to socialize with someone who makes me uneasy. I know he has too much respect for me and loves me so much that he wouldn't do anything to hurt me. If a man values his relationship with his wife or girlfriend, he wouldn't do anything to jeopardize that just to have his ego stroked. My boyfriend is a real man and I trust him completely.
When she's clearly trying to steal him (by touch [but don't be jealous of every handshake, friendly hug, etc. I mean actual flirting], suggestive comments, etc.) or being explicitly rude where your relationship is involved (cutting you down in front of your partner, criticizing your relationship...)
I don't know but no man wants his spouse to be too possessive about him..For mutual happiness it's better to trust what the man says...I can understand ur concern about ur man but all men are like that.. But that doesn't mean that they don't love their wife and children..All men flirt and all women know this and the wise among them don't make an issue of it..Because that marks beginning of fissures in family life.. What I'm trying to tell u is that nothing can be stopped forcefully..But wise among men r more careful about it and flirt only behind the curtain..
I am not sure why he can't talk to who ever he wants. You should be able to talk to whom ever you want to too.
Love, honey