Time is limeted on here.. so um...here goes?!
Question: I have been in some thangs since yall last heard from me.. so check it..
What do you think of women who try to talk to a man that is in a relationship he is not happy with. .but dont want to leave cause he has hope?
The other woman.. is literally throwing herself at him.. but he does not except her advances.. My thing .. if he did... would that mean.. he got with a woman that dont even care about him.. or no one but herself? or does it mean that the woman just knows she can make him happier than the one he is with?
Answers: I have been in some thangs since yall last heard from me.. so check it..
What do you think of women who try to talk to a man that is in a relationship he is not happy with. .but dont want to leave cause he has hope?
The other woman.. is literally throwing herself at him.. but he does not except her advances.. My thing .. if he did... would that mean.. he got with a woman that dont even care about him.. or no one but herself? or does it mean that the woman just knows she can make him happier than the one he is with?
That is touchy....
If a woman respects you and wants to be with you...she will respect your relationship and see how it turns out before she makes her move. Now there is nothing wrong with her putting the cards on the table and being honest. She crosses the line when she does not respect the boundaries you gave her. Women like that are asking for trouble sometimes.
On the other hand she might just need her physical needs met and nothing more. There are plenty of Women out there who share this point of view.
If you want this relationship you are in to work, then give it your all and let no Woman get in your way. Give it your best effort, also no when it will not work and end it amicably and civil.
Remember it is not up to anyone but yourself to make you happy.
who knows.. it could be either, or it could be she's just feelin him so much and believes that she's the better woman for him.. tricky,sticky situation.. matters of the heart are easily complicated.
i wish I could offer you more advice, but i got my own relationship probs right now.. i'm not sure my perspective is unbiased at the moment.. I do wish you good luck and it's nice, as always, to see you around.
Baby, if she ain't making the man happy, he needs to tell her. Cheating is NOT the answer, because then all parties will feel like crap.
If the one throwing herself at the man cannot accept that he is in a relationship, then she ain't no good either.
She should be keeping things platonic until he decides what he wants to do.
If he loves the woman that he is with and he has hope that things will work out between them then no matter what the other woman is doing should be an issue.
However if there are serious doubts about whether the couple will stay together and both will be happier without the other than honesty is the best answer and both should move on.
I'm not a big fan of other women stickin their noses into an all ready existing relationship and she should probably not be trusted (in my view) I'm not feelin the feelings and it is hard to judge from the outside lookin in. He needs to follow his heart but at the same time do right by everyone involved so that there will be no regrets. He shouldn't leave the first woman just because there is a second one waiting in line.
Sorry so long, I seemed to have a lot to say on the matter ; )
I wish him all the luck!!