When The Person You Love Is In Love With Somebody Else..??!
Question: do you tend to feel more resentment towards them or that other person..??
Answers: do you tend to feel more resentment towards them or that other person..??
i resent them all..i hate the fact that he chose her instead of me and i hate her for finding him first, and i hate myself for not being good enough for him to choose me...
its pretty sad
NEITHER ONE OF THEM. THE RESENTMENT WOULD BE FOR ME FOR LETTING MYSELF FALL IN LOVE WITH HIM.
Honestly it kind of alternates...But mostly him (Because he tells me how he loves me and is miserable with her..Blah, blah, blah...)
Both .,.
i hate em both. :(((
I try to feel happy for them both... if the other person makes him happier than I do, then it's ok with me. I think jealousy has nothing to do with love... it's more like some type of possession....
...I wouldn't feel resentment... more like sorrow...but within myself and not for them
mmm... no, I just go cry in a corner and waste time wondering why not me... : /
Such things happen... I know very well that when we fall for someone, it is not absolutely sure that he falls for us too just because we love him!!. We can't even push things to this direction! Love comes only naturally. This knowledge is very useful, helping me hold no malice to nobody. This, is not cheating.
Both and its the worse feeling in the world
Lips of an Angel gave a good answer, because ultimately we are responsible for our own actions and feelings.
However, to feel resentment towards the other person, would in my opinion truly be misguided. That person may completely be unaware of the situation at hand....or have been given information that is not correct. If you feel any valid resentment at all it would more likely be at least somewhat accurate to direct it at "them", (the one you love who loves another) which would depend a great deal upon things like, when did this other relationship begin, was it prior to your relationship, etc. It's a tough call with out all the info. about the extenuating circumstances.
Does that make sense?.................or did I just make it more complicated?
Peace,
Belle
neither...if i truly love someone...i would be happy for him...and for her...and wish them luck...id jsut be sad that i was never good enough....
the person....i mean if they werent here he would be with me. they are in the way...but then agian it is the guys mind to love her...
well,if i was in love with him first and he was in love with me,then he found somebody else,i'd hate both their guts!!!
Take your hands off of your heart and stop tearing it apart.
the other person in my life is the TV.....my husband is married to a TV! I dont hate them....BUt I am pretty wore out!
It was usually the object of HIS affection, not he himself! Strange, isn't it?
Mostly towards the one I love
?.blondy
no move on grow up and get a new life its too short to be having resentment!
Nope
I'm very lucky the one i love is the one that loves me back!!