Does It Frighten You When People Become Too Attached To You..??!
Question: Doesn't happen, so I'm covered.
Answers: Doesn't happen, so I'm covered.
Frightened, no but I get REALLY uncomfortable and begin to avoid them.
no
Yes, I like being a loner a lot....
YES!! thats like stalking already
Yeah....creepy....
kinda..lol
theres a difference between attached and just close..if they start to do everything i do, and just follow me around, thats freaky and that would bother me
but if we were just close, then not really
Actually, yes.
uh yes... this guy always follows me, and its starting to creep me out. Its kind of weird how he knows where all my classes are, and the stuff he'd do to get my attention. He's a nice guy, its just really annoying.
For the pretend record I would like to say that I am very attached to Bill. Not in THAT way....but I think he's awesome.
Only if I don't care for them or cannot understand WHY they are so attached. If they're someone I like, especially a woman, I enjoy it!
Yes(mmm...ok, maybe not frightened), only if I don't want to cling onto them, it throws everything off balance, and just makes me feel awkward, like "how do I get out of here...". But if it's a friend, I guess it's ok too...
yes, it does. i like to be the one that does the attaching
no...
according to my ex ... i'm "clingy"
so i wouldnt mind the favor in return
of course .... i have to know them lol
if it happens too soon, yes. Creepy!
Yeah. since its me....
I mean...what's there to get attached to?
but it really does..
except when it the people I really love..and I mean really love
"Attached" I find sweet.
"Obsessed" troubles me - that creeps me out, so yes I guess I can be a bit frightened about it.
ya ha my past relationship ehhh I will never let that happen again.
It was both ways.
Unfortunately yes.
depends who it is...
It all depends on what you mean by "attached" Having survived 3 years of War, nothing frightens me . I don't like people who cling too much. On the other hand, I have made some really great friends over the years who started off as being too attached and once they git to know me, the relationship developed into one of mutual respect .
Nope
I'm usually the one getting too attached...
That doesn't usually happen, but I really don't feel comfortable when I get a lot of attention.
yes it is like you cant breath without them wandering what you are doing.... right I am at a friends house using her computer that is in her bedroom she is in the family room watching TV... I have been here about 15 minutes.... she is probably asleep because she has not asked me if I am at the computer.... :D
Yes, and i don't know why. It bothers the hell out of me because I have a need to be close with people, but when it gets close then something happens .It's like I'm afraid of what I can't figure it out. Maybe it's the fear of losing the love you feel so desperate in need of. I have the same issue with pets.When i was very young my dog got killed by a car, and of course it tore me up. But from that time on I did not get attached to any pets. Now by circumstances, I'm attached to three dogs and I feel the pain of losing them in the future, for what ever reason. The same with people. I don't want that emptiness and heartbreak. I am not sure if I expressed what I meant. I'm a two finger slow typist and lose my train of thought by the time i get it typed. Thanks
i used to be regarding my past relationships. there was always a line that i didn't want them to pass. but, with my guy now there's no line. he knows my darkest secrets and still loves me.
nope its cool..as long they dont kill me
No not really , its more flattering than anything
I actually like it... I do get scared when *I* get clingy though. I've had some really bad experiences with that in the past. Now I try my best to be the opposite of needy which sometimes makes it seem as if I don't care at all, but I do: I do care... too much... but yeah, in general being too dependent on a person is not a good thing... people being so fickle and all....
no it dosnt they are only human !