Do you search for something in people that just isn't there?!
Question: Not any more. I wasted 25 years doing that. Never again. If it's not there, it's not, no amount of wishing or trying will make it so.
Answers: Not any more. I wasted 25 years doing that. Never again. If it's not there, it's not, no amount of wishing or trying will make it so.
sometimes that happens
Nope.
yes, very few people meet my expectations but then I prolly don't meet theirs either
yes I think I have been.
need to lower expectations........
ugh yes.. especially in potential bfs
it always ends badly...
i should just listen to my gut
I always look for their good qualities but some people just don't possess them
i belive everee oen has the potential for gud *looks eearnest* maybe all they need is soemoen to belive in them ?
Sometimes the kindness and goodness just isn't there or it is misunderstood!
yes sometimes...then forget that they don't have what I'm searching for and get kinda disappointed...so its to my detriment.
Yes. When I first meet people, I usually really like them. Then sometimes as I get to know them better, I'm disappointed by the way they really are.
Or I haven't found the right person that has 'it' in them. There has to be at least one, hasn't it ?
naaa.. gave it up!!!
now I just keep hummming.
Everyone has expecations of other people in this world. We all have good and bad in us..I choose to seek out the good and love in spite of the bad.People are just people and that is just how it is...
Used to... but I regretted every second of it
It's best to be optmistic and think about what people DO have instead of DON'T have
It makes you too depressed if you count up the things that people don't posess.
Friends are count with the fingers of one of my hands and many fingers don′t count
For quite a few years I longed for people to be like my 'model', and they just didn't have it in them. There has always been just one person for me, and I'm fortunate to have made a reconnection.
No. For the sake of my sanity, I stopped doing that.
i search for the good that i think that every person has...
but i always get surprised...
because not everyone has a good part....
That used to seem like the case. But I've found it...
...Oh, all the time...because if it's not there, how would I know they need it
Not anymore.
Yes - I've actually done that a couple of times
?.blondy
No, I usually go with my gut, all the while hoping my gut is wrong