Is this a crush or is it love?!
Question: ive known him since i was 5 and he was 7. im almost 20 and hes almost 22. i used to never like him as more then a friend but now for like a year or so its like i cant stop thinking about him. everytime i see him i think about what it would be like if he was hugging me and if we were together. i find myself daydreaming about him. i cant help it! hes such a nice guy and hes such a gentlemen! hes always opening doors for me and doing things like that for me. the other day he said i smelled nice and i couldnt help but blush i dont think he likes me like that. but do you think it could be love or is it just a big crush? i just dont know. what should i do? should i tell him what im feeling? I dont know if i should because if he doesnt like me back then he could act different towards me from now on. so what should i do? i am so confused.
Answers: ive known him since i was 5 and he was 7. im almost 20 and hes almost 22. i used to never like him as more then a friend but now for like a year or so its like i cant stop thinking about him. everytime i see him i think about what it would be like if he was hugging me and if we were together. i find myself daydreaming about him. i cant help it! hes such a nice guy and hes such a gentlemen! hes always opening doors for me and doing things like that for me. the other day he said i smelled nice and i couldnt help but blush i dont think he likes me like that. but do you think it could be love or is it just a big crush? i just dont know. what should i do? should i tell him what im feeling? I dont know if i should because if he doesnt like me back then he could act different towards me from now on. so what should i do? i am so confused.
If you even have to ask yourself that question..I would think it is something slightly less than love, maybe an intense liking? Actually, now that I think about it, I've felt that way about a few guys in my life. I might have known them for awhile but SUDDENLY, I really like them..out of nowhere. I can't stop thinking about them, they seem perfect to me. Then, later on, my "liking" starts to dull and I move on. Maybe that's what you're going through, maybe not.
TIME WILL TELL.
Wait a bit before telling him. Act slightly interested in him but not so much as to scare him off. Pay attention to how he responds but don't over-analyze every little thing he does. You'll eventually figure out if what you're feeling is something serious or not.
I think it is DEFINITELY love! Tell him about it!
its definitely love