Guys! do you hate it when a girl asks it if she looks fat? is it a turn off?!
Question: If she's thin and asks it's annoying and sort of a turn-off. I used to weigh 280 lbs, and I lost about 90 lbs. It wasn't easy, and it took me years to be able to look at myself and not assume I was fat, so it's sort of like a smack in the face to all I've done.
If she's chubby and asks, I'll say "yes" or "no" depending on whether it makes her look fat or not.
Answers: If she's thin and asks it's annoying and sort of a turn-off. I used to weigh 280 lbs, and I lost about 90 lbs. It wasn't easy, and it took me years to be able to look at myself and not assume I was fat, so it's sort of like a smack in the face to all I've done.
If she's chubby and asks, I'll say "yes" or "no" depending on whether it makes her look fat or not.
I only hate it when they get upset when you answer the question honestly...
It is a turn off, because it shows a lack of self confidence... some men may like timid women that are not sure of themselves... I am not one of those men
Nah its not a turn off, i personally think its cute but can get annoying.
Yeah because answering that question is the best way to end up sleeping on the couch.!
its annoying, they need more confidence in themselves!!!
yes and I hate it more when a very thin girl ask me if she look fat is like what she expect me to say now that she is fat? she have only bones....
When asked, I always say "I'm fine. How are you?".
I change the subject REAL fast...
yeah
I'm a girl but I hate it when girls ask that. All they have to do is look in the mirror! I think they have self esteem issues or have egos that need constant stroking. I think when they ask that they want you to say "no way, you're thin" or "I wish I was as thin as you". They don't want you to say yes cuz then you're a b*tch.
Usually it's the smaller sized girls who always ask that. Fat girls/women know they are fat and don't need to ask.
yeah that's why I tell them let's just go to my room and I know there is a good exercise to make you lose that weight and it's only take 30 minute and you'll lose 5 pound. lol. just being naughty.
They sh?uld't ask as they ?nly get upset when I tell the truth
If she asks me if I think she looks fat I tell her no. Women dont want to hear that thier man or friend thinks they are fat. We know you want our opinon but we dont want to tell you something that might upset or hurt you. We dont like you asking the question but we do like that you want our input. If we are with you and you are fat dont worry about it cause if it was that big of a deal we would leave you. We are with you cause we like your personality not how much you weigh.
I would never put my husband in that position. It's not always about confidence....some outfits are cut differently & isn't always flattering on everyone....even people who are confident in the way they look can feel that way occasionally....but that is what girlfriends are for. If you aren't sure, then just put something on that you do feel confident in....I feel bad for the guys who get set up with that loaded question.
I just skip those type of questions. ...I'm like a bridge over troubled waters.
Just answer but make sure you say the right think.