My heart is numb.. i think its broken too.. am i going to die?!
Question: my girlfrnd for 2 years had an arranged marriage planned for her since birth and i never knew about this.. now shez on her way to her honey moon.. while im writing this to people I dont even knw..
Answers: my girlfrnd for 2 years had an arranged marriage planned for her since birth and i never knew about this.. now shez on her way to her honey moon.. while im writing this to people I dont even knw..
I feel for ya, TRS....but time really does heal all wounds....come to think of it, it wounds all heels as well, but that's her problem.
This is when your friends become truly priceless. I had my heart shattered not so long ago, and the good friends I have among my co-workers helped me through that time more than any of them will ever know.....they got me through a lot of times when the best eight hours of my day were the ones when I was working (tell me that doesn't suck).
Don't isolate yourself or hole yourself up. Continue doing the things that interest you and that you enjoy. Rely on your friends, clue them in on what's up with you, and let the help you stay socially active.
Whatever you do, don't turn to alcohol or drugs to numb yourself. Don't go persuing relationships just for the sake of having one (Take it from me, down that path lies a Marriage from Hell). And whatever you do, do not, under any circumstances, lower your standards when it comes to what you are looking for in a woman.
Above all, give it time...and don't try too hard looking for love....it wll find you when the time is right.
I know all that is easy to say.....but I'm speaking from experience. I endured the Marriage from Hell for far too long, had my heart shattered, and went through some pretty dark days.
About eight months ago, I met someone truly wonderful, someone who was going through pretty much the same things herself. We went out a couple times, strictly as friends going places and doing things we didn't want to do alone....and before either one of us could realize what was happening, we were head over heels in love with each other. We both still have a lot of ugly things to resolve, but we are planning to spend the rest of our lives together.
It can happen for you as well....hang in there, my good man....be patient...good things will happen for you as well.
Good luck.
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:( im so sorry.
omg tht really sucks :( u gotta move on bud
I'm sorry. :( Why didn't she tell you?
That is **** on a stick bro.... still, there are more fish in the sea so don't get too down, you will get over it someday.
Seems quite a devious thing not to tell you about it though....
Sorry, love hurts and I know that staement sucks,but why didn't she tell you? Just don't go out and do something crazy.. Take your time and who know's it could have been a terrible joke. Good luck..
so ur girlfriend married someone else?!? :( thats sad!!! I dont think ur gonna die....find a new one. And talk to ur old girlfriend about how you feel................
Did you just create an account to say this? oh and you're probably not going to die
your indian, life sucks anyways for us in USA
You won't die, you'll just want to.
It'll be okay though, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
Sorry. :(
i'm sorry to hear that :( but no. Time will heal, and you'll move on. Trust me, I know.
Dude, that is horrible. Do you live in India?
no but u r in pain that she just suddenly left u try and find a girl thats 3 times better than her
She's an idiot. Just take it slow for awhile, listen to your favorite music, talk to friends...you'll be alright soon.
sorry what goes down must come up. so the bad has to get good.
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omg i feel so sorry for you..think about it this way...she knew..and she didnt tell you...just hope she'll be happy with her life choices..its 2008..nobody is forcing her..no matter what she says
Oh my god. I am so sorry. That has got to be the worst feeling in the universe. Im so sorry....
oh my goodness! That is soo devestating!!
You could die of a broken heart... but hang in there! Don't lose all hope okay!
That's terrible. I'm so sorry. Please, please, please don't do anything suicidal or "emo". You'll be ok. =)
That situation is terrible. I'm sorry that happened to you. But, you will live through it and someday, when you are ready to move on, you will find someone new that will fill that void. Until then, do things to make yourself happy and fill that void for yourself.
No, you will not die, You will find a lady better than the one who left you.
no you won't
omg thats horrible. I am so sorry and your not going to die just try to be strong.
No you want die..you'll just feel like it for a while..sorry
Everybody is going to die.
So sorry, but why is she doing it?
What if she said no to the arranged marriage?
no ur not going to die because than i would be dead to but I'm not so u are not either k ur just lonely.
Even though it feels like youre going to die, youre not...but I know it must be extremely painful.
Thats horrible that no one ever informed her of the arrangement! How come her parents never told her? Thats so obnoxious on their part!
Im sorry youre hurting b/c I cant imagine being in that situation. It would tear me up too. I hope you find the strength to heal soon.
No, sorry, you will only feel bad for a while.
Realize that if she didn't tell you and continued a relationship with you for two years - - - think of the poor guy she ended up with! What a liar she is! I would be glad she's out of my life!
There is not excuse for a woman to do that to anyone! Can you imagine the lies she would have told you had your relationship went on?
Good rid dens to her!
You're not going to die. But, it'll feel like that for awhile. I'm sorry.