What would you do if..................?!
Question: you had 2 best friends male and female (they were married) and you are married and you have known them for 18 years. Then the last few years, your male best friend (who is married to your female best friend) had been giving you compliments in front of his wife, and flirting when she's not around, and tells you he has always been attracted to you and when he passes by you, he makes sure he rubs up against you in some way.
How would you handle this, as both are best friends and you don't want to hurt either one or get your spouse upset at them either?
Answers: you had 2 best friends male and female (they were married) and you are married and you have known them for 18 years. Then the last few years, your male best friend (who is married to your female best friend) had been giving you compliments in front of his wife, and flirting when she's not around, and tells you he has always been attracted to you and when he passes by you, he makes sure he rubs up against you in some way.
How would you handle this, as both are best friends and you don't want to hurt either one or get your spouse upset at them either?
Pull out now! Many a marriage has been ruined by that "I find myself attracted to you" line. Oldest in the book.
If his wife is truly your best friend, then you will let her husband know in no uncertain terms that you are not interested and never will be. That you love your husband.
If you handle it right and nip it in the bud, there'll be no need to tell your husband or his wife.
After all, the cad is wanting to cheat with his wife's best friend, place his wife's best friend in an awkward position, and stab his own best friend (your husband) in the back.
Straighten things out right now, no matter if you find his attention a bit flattering. NOT WORTH IT. If he continues, then distance yourselves. No explanations needed. No need to hurt his wife. And she'd probably end up mad at you after her husband told her a reverse story.
I would tell him to stop the sh**
cry
tell him to knock it off. that it makes you feel uncomfortable even if he is joking.
tell his wife or expect him to continue you never know she might be secretly enjoying it lol
tell him to cut it off or else you're gonna tell his wife
tough one ,, ask him to stop , and tell him ur not interested and ur happy with ur husband, if he's a good friend he wud respect that
Ugh!! well not to hurt my girlfriend i would tell her man to leave me alone. and that i love my boyfriend/ or husband!!
hopefully that never happens
I ould tell him hes amrried if ghe has kids go and look after them and be a good dad if he makes a commentjust simply say look im sorry im not intrested
slap him acrost the face or sitdown wit ur spouse and both ur male and ur female frend and address the issue but be careful not 2 hurt anyone
They would not be my friends in the first place!!!
i was gonna write a book about this worst case scenario.
id tell him to knock it off since youre such good friends dont be shy to do so
You could take him aside and politely tell him that you do not appreciate it and ask him to stop. Let him know that you will go to his wife if he doesn't stop. Make sure you deny having feelings like that for him.
You may have to resort to embarassing him in front of his wife to get him to stop.
If he was a good friend i would be quite open with him and say WTF are you doing? Stop being stupid it's embarrassing. see what he replies. Maybe he thinks you feel the same way in which case you need to make clear you don't, even if you were somewhat attracted to him you should definitely NOT do anything about it, make it clear to him the flirting is stupid and you find it annoying. If he can't except that and continues then you need to stay away from him for a while.
I guess all the answers are up there ^^^^... Tell him off, or else u'll tell the wife,,,
First of all, Damn I wish I was the guy rubbing against you. That kinda maka little hot.
Anyway, you have to tell him to stop. He needs to respect you and your husband.