Do you think I am a bad person for being happy about this?!
Question: So my ex cheated on me and told me the worst way possible, a few days after my grandmother died holding my hand and grasping for air, looking into my eyes, while I tried to save her life in utter desperation. He told me that he was cheating on me because " You are a stupid, idiot, moron who thinks everyone is your friend when they actualy want to f*** you when you turn your back" So now, many years latter, I find out that the lady whom he cheated on me with and married and had a child with, left him, madly in love, broken hearted and told him that " I don't want to be married to you anymore, I am not ready to be a wife or mother, I am not ready to be a housewife" And he was left with his heart broken, not as broken as mine, but anyways! So, when I found out about it, I was happy, cose he got his and now, that he knows what he lost, he wants me to know that he is single again!? I told his sister to tell him to go find a partner in the same place he found one to cheat on me with...
Answers: So my ex cheated on me and told me the worst way possible, a few days after my grandmother died holding my hand and grasping for air, looking into my eyes, while I tried to save her life in utter desperation. He told me that he was cheating on me because " You are a stupid, idiot, moron who thinks everyone is your friend when they actualy want to f*** you when you turn your back" So now, many years latter, I find out that the lady whom he cheated on me with and married and had a child with, left him, madly in love, broken hearted and told him that " I don't want to be married to you anymore, I am not ready to be a wife or mother, I am not ready to be a housewife" And he was left with his heart broken, not as broken as mine, but anyways! So, when I found out about it, I was happy, cose he got his and now, that he knows what he lost, he wants me to know that he is single again!? I told his sister to tell him to go find a partner in the same place he found one to cheat on me with...
Yes and no. Don't feel guilty for feeling happy. it is a normal human reaction . He should learn to be true to people and he gets to see what it feels like. You also need to keep it in check because you should try to not be nothing but happy ,you should try to show some mercy and be the bigger person. That would really throw him for a loop and it would be a blessing for you in the long run to be merciful in your thoughts. I went through the same feeling of happiness when my boyfriends twin brother got hit by a car and broke his leg. he had previously been very rude and hateful to me and he was always trying to show me how happy he was and he said I was old. I would see him riding his bike smiling and he thought he was hot. He is ten years older than me. I told him that if he did not quit being so mean to people something very bad would happen to him and I said you will see. And a couple of weeks later that happened. I was surprised and when I found out he was alive with a broken leg I felt happy. I tried to have a more sober judgment but I kept feeling happy and smiling. I told him I was sorry he got hurt and I had nothing to do with it because if I had the power to break people's legs everyone would have a broken leg. (That was a joke.)When someone hurts you reaal bad it is normal to feel happy when they get what you think they deserved. It makes you feel like justice is real. The best justice is when you don't feel happy or sad about them because you are so happy and blessed on your own it does not matter to you any more at all.
maybe
I guess.
karma bit him in the rear, he deserved it. Don't feel guilty
Nope.
Karma strikes again!
Nah your not a bad person but it looks like Karma worked in your favor...congrats to you!
YEAH U SHOULD!
i meant you should be happy
ummm...
ok?
Just don't get too happy about it. I can understand you feeling justified in his comeuppance.
No, not a bad person at all. A little strange, but then again, I like strange people.
No, you have every right to feel happy. What goes around comes around, and looks like it came back and bit him in the rear end. You got a closure of sorts. Move on and let him be miserable. The jerk.
girl, you're not a bad person. i'd be happy too!!! lol
i was happy when my ex in high school was sent to the office and searched for drugs. you see, when i was dating him, i told him i hated the fact that he was doing stuff like that, and after he cheated on me, i dumped him. i was so happy he got in trouble. he had got what was coming to him. :D
I'd be happy too- Good for you
A strange situation. Sounds like it would make a good Lifetime Movie Network movie.
no not at all revenge is sweet and u didnt even do anything
karrrrmaaaas a beeeeeottchhh
haha.
yeah, youre not a horrible person, dont worry.
thats just unfortunate for him.
u dont trust the kind person again even he wants u back... stay with ur beloved husband.. n one thing, if u can laugh at him because of his loser it is find.. no guilty..... tell him, "what goes around comes around"
karma is a B!!!! i know the feeling -=D
~ not so much worng more like it is normal, at the time they break our heart that is what we all wish for .... for him or her to go through the same hurt we go through, and all though it doesn't happen right away.......... we all get our hearts broken, some more than others, but very few get lucky to see or here that the person who broke our hearts get theirs ( i think you are lucky ) like it kinda puts a closer on the hurt, but not completely as a heart broken is never completely forgotten ~ But, you keep your head up high babe, you are in a better place now and should stay there ~ take care ....
~ Love, Julie
thats funny but no you shouldn't
what goes around, comes around !!! let your heart be happy in just knowing that you came out on top of a very bad situation that he [your ex, ] placed you in and the hell with him dear !... tb
So funny how that happens Mean people will get theres and that just proves it . Its a bit of a Woooo hooooo moment. and shout it out. The best part you have someone who is 100% better and what a blessing. Enjoy your moment . xx