Have you thanked your mother for the approximately nine months she carried you?!
Question: no , i once said to her when i was about three,
" thank you for born-ing me!"
guess i was a happy three year old! she still laughs about that now
Answers: no , i once said to her when i was about three,
" thank you for born-ing me!"
guess i was a happy three year old! she still laughs about that now
never got the chance
no
she died on my 19th birthday
My mother's passed on dear heart do you.
I haven't thanked her for carrying me for 9 months, but I have thanked her for all her support and love and always being there for me. And being the best mum in the world
No
Was her bludy choice to have me in the first place - i didn't ask!
You might aswel go thank your dads sperm whilst your at it.
Its weird.
NO, but I thanked her for the other stuff that she does for me.
NO she killed herself when I was five.
no
yes
Nope. Me & my mum dont get on.
A few years ago i really needed her help & advice & she went out with her friend rather than having a chat with me.
It was a life changing decision that i had to make & i begged her to help me & she turned her back on me. ???
i really wish she didnt have me
No. She wanted a child, and I don't think you can grow one in the back garden, so she didn't have much choice.
I have thanked her for putting up with me since I was squeezed out, though.
No. I should do that. I did yell at her for smoking while PG with me.
no because she dropped me in the end
No, I didn't ask her to - I was merely a foetus! And, what choice did she have? She's the one who got pregnant, why does that warrant a thank you?!
She gets a thank you for being my mum though, not just my maternal parent.
No, she is vile woman and I owe her nothing.
Numerous times.
On my 40th birthday I sent her a dozen roses, her reaction was priceless.
no, on several occasions throughout my life she has made it quite clear i was a mistake.
When I was 16..a long time ago..lol..I was arguing with my mom about something..cant even remember now..but I remember saying "gee thanks mom, I never asked to be born"..lol
I was young then..typical teen..all mouth..lol
........Yes I have.........she is wonderful mother and I don't know what would I do without her.........
Yeah I think I did... on her deathbed... but it's not something that you just come out with..."oh thanks mum for carrying me for 9 months and enduring all you had to endure". How can we ever know.
How many people out there are screwed up because of their mother ...or because of their beliefs about their mum...your answers so far are a bit freaky..
I lost everything except my boy in my 9 months of pregnancy. My life, my boyfriend, my 3 horses(which were so much of my life), my house, my magnificent veggie garden, my job, my whole life was lost so that i could have a child .. i was so sick i didn't know what day it was... and when i look at my beautiful boy who has no real idea of what i went thru... i don't expect him to have a clue of what i gave up and and what i went thru. Altho I do try to remind him sometimes... it's not something anybody can understand until they go through it. Children i think can never appreciate it fully... and they probably shouldn't have to.... It's our lives not theirs.
Anyway that all sounds a bit serious!! :-)
Luv
Mish
Would you thank someone who complained bitterly and repeatedly about the 72 hours she was in labour with you!?
For as long as I can remember (and it's decades) my mother has gone on and on (on a daily basis) about how much she suffered!
As a trained midwife, I have seen people endure difficult labours, but all have forgotten the pain the moment their firstborn was handed to them!
It's not nice being told, how much of an ordeal your arrival was!
So, to answer your question - I'm not grateful - I'm angry and sad, that I was/am such a burden.
No...That would be a weird thing to do.