Poll: Have any of you held a long time grudge against someone?!
Question: I have two grudges going right now. The first one started twenty-six years ago when this jerk broke into my house and stole my vacation fund of about $2,500 and the electric guitar that my dad gave me for my thirteenth birthday. I know he took these things from me but I can't prove it and he denies it. Still, I know he did it and I will always be sure that he did it. The second grudge that I have going started about three years ago. Someone who had worked for me for a summer about ten years ago showed up one day and he was down and out. I fed him and gave him a trailer to sleep in and found him two jobs. He was starting to have things come together for him because of me. How does he repay me? He stole my pick-up with about $1,000 worth of Snap-On tools in it, and he found about $2,500 cash that he took. To top it off when he took the stuff I had taken him to the local river to fish and he left me and another friend at the river with a two and a half hour walk home, all uphill. Him I would love to see again, my normally calm, friendly demeanor would not be so calm and friendly after the first few seconds. I would love to take him way out into the woods and leave him there after I break both of his legs. Let's see him walk away from that. Other than that I am pretty much grudge free, even mp land partner who gave me the 30 day notice does not rate a grudge from me. Now if he had been sucessful in ousting me, stealing my land, then he would have deserved a grudge. I do not care for thieves, they really get my blood boiling. Ruffff!!!
Answers: I have two grudges going right now. The first one started twenty-six years ago when this jerk broke into my house and stole my vacation fund of about $2,500 and the electric guitar that my dad gave me for my thirteenth birthday. I know he took these things from me but I can't prove it and he denies it. Still, I know he did it and I will always be sure that he did it. The second grudge that I have going started about three years ago. Someone who had worked for me for a summer about ten years ago showed up one day and he was down and out. I fed him and gave him a trailer to sleep in and found him two jobs. He was starting to have things come together for him because of me. How does he repay me? He stole my pick-up with about $1,000 worth of Snap-On tools in it, and he found about $2,500 cash that he took. To top it off when he took the stuff I had taken him to the local river to fish and he left me and another friend at the river with a two and a half hour walk home, all uphill. Him I would love to see again, my normally calm, friendly demeanor would not be so calm and friendly after the first few seconds. I would love to take him way out into the woods and leave him there after I break both of his legs. Let's see him walk away from that. Other than that I am pretty much grudge free, even mp land partner who gave me the 30 day notice does not rate a grudge from me. Now if he had been sucessful in ousting me, stealing my land, then he would have deserved a grudge. I do not care for thieves, they really get my blood boiling. Ruffff!!!
I can't hold grudges...
3 years and counting...
: )
yesssssssss and its still going on
No idea
yes.
yes i have.
Yes and it's in full swing!
Yup ......35 years ........It's a compitition thing ..........nothing mean
Yes, I did but I decided to let things like that go after I had my car crash where I could have died.
After that I realized that grudges are a waste of time & life's way too short for that crap...
I have seek,ed out individual @ss holes before, That did me a great wrong, and i got revenge on most of them. They beat me to nearly death, I was in coma for two weeks afterwards.
nope...not me:)
No, I like to deal with any unpleasantness right away. It makes me sick to have bad feelings hanging around.