If two of your now ex guy friends did something bad to you?!
Question: I don't want to get into all the gory details just need some outside advice...I caught one of them stealing money out of my purse and when I went to try to get it back he punched me threw me on the couch & told the other one to hold me down because I was going to call the cops and he said he'd give me something to call them for..use your imagination I don't want to explain it.My friend Chris walked in in time and hit him with something and made sure he didn't get away until the police got there.Now they're both out of jail and I keep getting threats if I don't drop the charges..what would you do?Stand your ground or drop them and hope they leave you alone?
Answers: I don't want to get into all the gory details just need some outside advice...I caught one of them stealing money out of my purse and when I went to try to get it back he punched me threw me on the couch & told the other one to hold me down because I was going to call the cops and he said he'd give me something to call them for..use your imagination I don't want to explain it.My friend Chris walked in in time and hit him with something and made sure he didn't get away until the police got there.Now they're both out of jail and I keep getting threats if I don't drop the charges..what would you do?Stand your ground or drop them and hope they leave you alone?
If they threaten you and you tell the court, they will revoke their bond. put a recorder on your phone so you have some proof. Be care full, please.
They won't leave you alone because this will happen again. Stand your ground and, if necessary, get restraining orders slapped on both of them. I'm sorry you're going through this.
i would make a report with the police departments just so they know you're being threatened. get a pfa if you can. i wish i could help you out more. i hate @ssholes like that. good luck and stay safe.
yeah i agree, let the cops know what threats they have made then you may be able to get an avo. so the next time they come near you you can call the cops and have them locked up. maybe stay with another guy or friends so you wont be left alone in the mean time.
First of all let me say that I'm so sorry that you're going through this right now. If you haven't already, please go and get a PPO against both of them. When you make the report make sure to use the words "emotional distress". Those words take the charges up a notch in court. (I'm a criminal justice major.)
Honestly I'm not sure what I would do in your situation, but I would like to think that I would stand my ground. These creeps need to pay for what they've done.
Good luck.
Stand your ground and report the threats to the Police. If they are voice mail or e-mail, save copies. The two ex-buddies will soon be facing further charges and will learn you are not one to mess with.
Well I woudl make sure to press charges and don't back down. ANd also get a restainting order against both of them that way if they break it tehy will automaticly go to jail. SO don't stop back or be afraid , this shoudl piss you off and make you mad. SO press chrges adn tell them if anything happens to you again< I will search fopr tehm till the end of time. Just tell them this" Always be looking over your shoulder because, you can never tell I may be there". Hope they go to jail and throw away the key.