Was it rude that I told my neighbor that he needs to do something about his yard!
Question: Was it rude that I told my neighbor that he needs to do something about his yard specifically his grass!?
It looks horrendous, and everyone can see it!. Everyone did their yard, but his looks like patched out, weed filled, garbage!.
Was I out of line!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Was I out of line!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
As long as its not violating local ordinances or neighborhood covenants, it's none of your business!. You never know what's going on in his life that makes him unable to work on his yard!. If you don't like it, offer to mow it yourself; otherwise, leave your neighbor alone!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Is he sick or something!? Is he old, very busy!? One time my neighbors let their grass get patchy and grow tall, but I found out his wife had cancer and he has a bum knee so he cant bend down without it swelling!. So it really isnt your business!. Maybe you can offer to put down some weed killer, offer to get the trash out, or you can politely hint at something that worked for your yard!.
Hmmm Are you really worried that you offended him or are you trying to make a point\!? Why not make it clear that you didnt mean it in a bad way to him!.
I dont now, it does sound rude even though having a bad yard is tacky, it's not yours and chances are he's aware, but he just desnt have the time/money to do anything!. For example, if you parked your car under a tree and saw birds poop all over it, but you drove it home anyway and your other neighbor that you dont know said "You need to wash your car," how would you feel!? You'd probably think, "you dont know me well enough to say anything!. ive paid for this car and youve never talked to me otherwise but to say this!?!!?! that's rude!."Www@Enter-QA@Com
Hmmm Are you really worried that you offended him or are you trying to make a point\!? Why not make it clear that you didnt mean it in a bad way to him!.
I dont now, it does sound rude even though having a bad yard is tacky, it's not yours and chances are he's aware, but he just desnt have the time/money to do anything!. For example, if you parked your car under a tree and saw birds poop all over it, but you drove it home anyway and your other neighbor that you dont know said "You need to wash your car," how would you feel!? You'd probably think, "you dont know me well enough to say anything!. ive paid for this car and youve never talked to me otherwise but to say this!?!!?! that's rude!."Www@Enter-QA@Com
well it sepends!.!.!. if you both share the land!.!. i think it would be ok!.!. but if it's his own territory & has nothing to do with you, honestly yeah!.!. & if he didnt tell you to back off, thats a nice neighbor of yours then!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
No, nobody likes a neighbor that has a house that ruins the looks of the neighborhood!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
As long as you said it nicely and not in a rude tone!. Cause it really isnt your place!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Nope, If it was out of order then tell him but nicely!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
No, It Ok*Www@Enter-QA@Com
Ha no, i would want people to tell me!. [:
So i can make a change!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
So i can make a change!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
nope!.Www@Enter-QA@Com