Can you give me suggestions with how to deal with liking a coworker who doesn!
Question: Can you give me suggestions with how to deal with liking a coworker who doesn't like me!?
I don't want to like him, but it's uncontrollable!. I think of him all the time even though he doesn't like me!. I think the only way I can stop liking him and stop thinking of him is to quit my job (and i am looking for other jobs) because I work with him every other weekend!. I don't want to think of him but everything about him from his smiles to his voice stays with me, help!. thanks!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
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Your job is to work, not to "like anyone" you are not paid to like you are paid to work!. Perhaps you are thinking of him so much, because he is not thinking of you and could care less about you!. You are giving him more value than he is worth; definitely more value than he is giving you!. People always remember 1 of 2 people a lot!.!.the one they really love and the one that never pays attention to them!.
Stop giving him the value that he does not deserve, be cordial and just do your job!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Stop giving him the value that he does not deserve, be cordial and just do your job!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Well, change jobs!.!.!.nothing worse than love at work, and even worse, one way love at work, or impossible love at work, been through it once, never again!.!.!.and he liked me back!.!.!.but this relationship, we both knew it had no future, it was only attraction and when we go over it!.!.!.well I had to keep seeing him every day, he still had an effect on me, but I knew I didn't want to go further, so when one day he left the office, it was the most beautiful day of my life, then!.!.!.
so if you can, leave, and then you'll realize that the saying "far from the eyes, far from the heart" is true!.!.!.it does take time, but it's true!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
so if you can, leave, and then you'll realize that the saying "far from the eyes, far from the heart" is true!.!.!.it does take time, but it's true!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Get away from him as soon as you can unless he is single and you think it's love!. Otherwise, you have an obsession!. If it happens with another man, get some help by therapy!. You could have OCD or something else that can also be treated!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
well its easier if u know him best and i really think u should weight the options, if u tell him u might loose a friend cs he might not like you, or you just forget it and move on!. who knows maybe he likes you!. its actually ur call!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Ask him out and when he rejects you you can start hating him and forgetting him!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
These things can't really be helped!. I've been there, our feelings are what they are, and how we deal with them is our choice!. No one can help who you fall for!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Find a way to deal with it!.
The old adage is true: Don't dip your pen in the company ink!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
The old adage is true: Don't dip your pen in the company ink!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
How do you know he doesn't like you too !?!?!? Just tell him you find him attractive and let the chips fall where they may !Www@Enter-QA@Com
we'll you know just go up to them and say some stuff don't be afraid you know and when you think that they like you then !.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
buy the book " dealing with people you cant stand" it is really good! gives alot of tips"Www@Enter-QA@Com
dress to impress and attract him!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
just tell him "hey you! i freakin like ya, deal with it!"Www@Enter-QA@Com
2 words for u!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.fuc himWww@Enter-QA@Com