I'm not gay, Can you help me?!


Question: I'm not gay, Can you help me!?
So my friend has been going through a rough week!.
I've been helping him, comforting him, making him laugh, and listening to him!.
Now he wants to break up with his current boyfriend because he has feeling towards me!.
I dont want him to do that!
I'll say no and he will be depressed and emo again!.
what should I tell him!?Www@Enter-QA@Com


Answers:
i have a similar problem some times except mine are with straight guys!. when there having girlfriend problems, i'm the one they go to for help!. i comfort, listen, make them laugh you know all that stuff!. then they decided that the girl there with isn't the girl for them & i am, tell me there new found feels for me & then want to brake up with there current girlfriend!. (this doesn't always happen but it's happened more then way more then three times!. this is also the the main reason i think i don't have any female friends!. now i know there are different variables but more or less the same situation!.) i find the easiest thing to do is tell them that i'm not interested & ask them is the only reason there having these feelings for me because they want an excuse to brake up with there current girlfriend!. (that could be what your friend is doing even though he really likes his boyfriend, wants an out, he doesn't have a good enough excuse & has these ''feelings'' for you!. he's could be making you his excuse!. most of the time that's what my friends are doing!. developing ''feelings'' for me so they feel like they have a good enough excuse!.) tell him if he really wants to brake up with his boyfriend then he should do it to make himself happy but you can't be the reason because you don't swing that way (you might want to be nicer about saying it) also you'll be able to tell if the ''feelings'' he is having are real or just an excuse!. if they are real feelings tell him that your not interested, your sorry & you just want to be friends!. you can also tell him when your like 40 & if you aren't in a serious relation ship & aren't married, you'll give him a call!.it could make him laugh!.
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Introduce him to your girlfriend or tell him the truth about your feelings towards him and tell him that if he wants to leave his boyfriend he does not need another person to go to in order for that to be a correct decision!. He may be single for a while but that is okay!. He will not be single for ever!. That is the best I can come up with without knowing your friend and you too!. The first idea is the easiest!. The second is the best!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

ok then lol!. i'd just tell him that you were just trying to help him coz he was having a rough time, but that you just want to be friends!.!.!. remind him why he's with his current boyfriend in the first place! good luck! :)Www@Enter-QA@Com

What!? Are you serious!? If your not gay then tell him no!.Stringing him along is the worst thing you can do to him!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Tell him that you aren't interested and that you aren't gay and that you'll just be his friend and thats it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

It's best to tell him where you stand on the situation!.!.!.!.before he develops feelings for you!. Tell him you'll be his friend!.!.!.!.but nothing more than that!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Tell him "no"!.
If a guy were to tell me no, I'd back off!.

-jayWww@Enter-QA@Com

tell him nice try! but no!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

tell him you're not available and that you'll help him find a nice guyWww@Enter-QA@Com



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