Now here is a tough question FOR EVERYONE......PARENTS / WOULD BE PARENTS?!


Question: Now here is a tough question FOR EVERYONE!.!.!.!.!.!.PARENTS / WOULD BE PARENTS!?
what if you found out that, as a result of a mix up at the hospital, your child was not actually yours!?

and the REAL parents with your ACTUAL child wanted to make a trade, could you do it!?

would you want to see your real child and would it affect your relationship with the child you have now!?

how disturbing would that be!?

note: this has actually happened by the way!.Www@Enter-QA@Com


Answers:
Well it wouldn't be fair to either child to change things like that, I would hope that the other parents would be willing to have play dates and do something like a part time custody thing so we could have the children during the weekends and stuff like that!. If they wanted to trade and I had too I would but I would hope they would still let me have time with the child!. OOOOOO THIS WOULD BE SO HARD

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Hmmm!.!.!. that's a thinker!. In my opinion it would depend on the situation!. How long before the mix up was discovered!. Has it been hours, days, weeks!.!.!.!.!.!. For me, that would be a huge contributing factor to my decision!. I can sit here and give you what I think I would do (again depending on the situation) but it wouldn't be accurate because without being put in that situation I do not know how I would handle it!. I mean I would want a relationship with my BIOLOGICAL child as well as the child I had been caring for so I would try to work something out with the other parents!. And I would probably sue the hospital because with all the technology and the fact that this had happened before and they should be more aware and it should not of happened!. You are talking a lot of emotional damage for everyone involved!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

If this happened to me I would be very upset at the fact that the hosp[ital would do this kind of thing!. Yes I would love to see my own child and no it would not affect my relationship with the child I have raised for so many years!. To a point it would be very disturbing to the fact that the hospital would get the children mixed up and make so costly a mistake and it would be their fault!. By rights I and the other parent who is involed can sue the hospital for neglegents and we would win hands down!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

This is a real thinker: It would have to depend on how long I had the child!.

Naturally I would wanna see my baby!.
No it wouldn't affect the relationship I already have with my child, but damn, I tell you this is something to really think about!.

It would be very disturbing

Wow this really happened!? I feel for the two families, I really do!.They have loved their child at least the child they thought was there's and now they have to trade!. This is real deep!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

wow!.!.!. i don't know!.!.!. i guess it would depend on how long between the time the baby was born to the time they wanted to trade!.!.!. if it was just a couple of days, then, yeah, probably wouldn't have a problem for it, my heart would still ache, but i'd be ok with it!. If it was a year or so, then no, probably not!. i'd have to let a judge decide that one!. And it would depend on if i knew they'd abused the child or not, if that was the case, i'd turn them in, then file for custody of both children!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Wow this is tough!. I would want to have both! I would like to trade and get my own kid, because it's my biological child!. But on the other hand the child I had I would always be in love with!.

But it depends on the amount of time and the age of the kids!. I really don't know if I could decide!?

How old were the kids when they found out!?Www@Enter-QA@Com

It depends how old the child was!.!.a few days, i'd be upset but i'd get over it!.!.!.but say i dunno!.!.!.older than about 3!.!.!.I dunno how i'd cope!.!.!.i'd want them both!.!.!.it would be a nightmare!.!.!.!.I don't think i could do like a straight swap!.!.!.i dunno!.!.!.!.god i'd be a mental case i think!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Blimey that's a thought provoker!

I suppose it depends on how long you have had the child!. I guess after a couple days it would not be so difficult but much longer than that then no way!.

My eldest is 18 and my youngest is 11!. There is no way I would give them up!. Nothing would induce me to do that!. I would be prepared to get friendly with the other family though!.

What a terrible dilemma for someone though!. We can never really say what we would do unless we are faced with that particular problem ourselves!.

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Wow!.!.!.deep question!. Well, how old is the child when this is discovered!? I have a daughter who is 9 and if this was discovered now, I wouldn't trade!. She is mine regardless and I love her to pieces!. I could never do that to her never mind me!.

If its a baby!.!.!.!. perhaps I would trade!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

MY sister and i dated two brothers!.!.We both got pregnant and had our kids the same day ,,june -20th!.!.(today is their birthday) how often does that happen!. the hospital got our kids mixed up for a bit because their last names were the same to ,, thank goodness my sisters son was male !.!.mine was female !.!.anyways we were in the same room but had to be moved !.!.lol it was crazy!.!. i would want my child i gave birth to !.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I remember hearing this happened!. There is no way I'd give my child up now!. Even though I carried one baby, I have raised this one and I could never ever EVER give him back!. They'd have to pry him out of my cold, dead hands first!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

wow!!!that is a tough question!.i don't really know what i would do unless it happened to me then i'm sure it would be hard to decide!.i feel sorry for the ones that went through this>>Www@Enter-QA@Com

legally I wouldn't have a choice but I would want my own biological child!.

Altho with my kids, they're def!. mine--they have the same nose and chin and my boy is a spitting image of me!. My daughters ''tude is all mine too haha!Www@Enter-QA@Com

Wow, this is a tough question!. I don't even know what I'd do!. I'd be completely heartbroken!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

wow!.!.!.who did that happen to!? i couldn't do it!. it may actually depend on how long i had the child!.Www@Enter-QA@Com



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