Please reaad!?!
Question: Please reaad!!?
Ok its kinda long but ill give 10 points!
I play on a travel 14 u fastpitch softball team!. I HATE it!. I really want to quit!. But i dont know what to do!.
In tournament games i sit like more than half the games, and in league games i do play though!. I have softball like 3-5 times a week and its not fun!.
Should i quit because im missing a lot of fun stuff for softball and i hate it or should i stay on the team b/c i made a commitment!.!.
if i quit we would have 3 extra players
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I play on a travel 14 u fastpitch softball team!. I HATE it!. I really want to quit!. But i dont know what to do!.
In tournament games i sit like more than half the games, and in league games i do play though!. I have softball like 3-5 times a week and its not fun!.
Should i quit because im missing a lot of fun stuff for softball and i hate it or should i stay on the team b/c i made a commitment!.!.
if i quit we would have 3 extra players
HELP!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
If you know that you can quit and the rest of the team won't suffer because of it then I'd quit!. If you obviously are not happy to be participating and you aren't enjoying yourself then don't put yourself through it!.
You are only 14!. You will have tons of opportunities to participate in other sports and/or activities!. And believe me, what you did at 14 will have very little or no bearing on what happens in your future!.
Make yourself happy!. Do something you enjoy!. You are only 14 once!. You don't want to waste a summer participating in an activity you hate!.
I hope my answer helps you out!Www@Enter-QA@Com
You are only 14!. You will have tons of opportunities to participate in other sports and/or activities!. And believe me, what you did at 14 will have very little or no bearing on what happens in your future!.
Make yourself happy!. Do something you enjoy!. You are only 14 once!. You don't want to waste a summer participating in an activity you hate!.
I hope my answer helps you out!Www@Enter-QA@Com
If you do not enjoy the sport, you must sit down with your parents and tell them You no longer desire to play Fast Pitch Softball!. Since your quitting will not leave the team short, it is best to quite something you hate than to stick with it!. it will be better for you and your teammates!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
quit!! you know why!?!? because maybe you are present their phsysically!.!.!.!.!.but mentally you want to go from that place as soon as possible!! you really dont want to do that as you have said it yourself!.!.!.!.!! so basically your wasting your time! think about it!!
i know its true that you made a commitment and you shoulnt break it!.!.!.!.!.but apologize and try to make others understand that it would be useless of you doing something you dont want to really!!
hope i helped!! GOOD LUCK!! :D!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
i know its true that you made a commitment and you shoulnt break it!.!.!.!.!.but apologize and try to make others understand that it would be useless of you doing something you dont want to really!!
hope i helped!! GOOD LUCK!! :D!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Well, If your not happy what does a commitment mean!?
If you married someone and they verbally abused you and you were miserable would you take it because you made a commitment!?
It's never good to quit, but i believe a persons happiness is most important!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
If you married someone and they verbally abused you and you were miserable would you take it because you made a commitment!?
It's never good to quit, but i believe a persons happiness is most important!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
stay for now - IMHO!. but if you really hate it that much talk to the coaches and the other players and i'm sure you have friends on the team!. play a little longer and if it still is a hassle then give it up!.
thanks for asking!.!. :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
thanks for asking!.!. :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
If you really don't like what you are doing, quit!. Talk it over with your parents and coach first though to express your feelings for quitting, but if you still feel like you would rather be doing something else, go ahead!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Well,
is it a professional team!? If so, I wouldn't unless you really, really, really, really hate it!. If you signed a contract don't quit!. Otherwise do what is best for you and what YOU want!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
is it a professional team!? If so, I wouldn't unless you really, really, really, really hate it!. If you signed a contract don't quit!. Otherwise do what is best for you and what YOU want!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Maybe you could have a chat with the coach about how you are feeling!.
If he could afford to let you go then I guess you are free!. But at least you would have honored your commitment!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
If he could afford to let you go then I guess you are free!. But at least you would have honored your commitment!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
quit, if you truly hate it, you could be missing out on a opportunity to find something you really love!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Wait until this season ends then quit!. You stayed with your team till the end no guilt there!. If you really hate it no one should force you to play it!. Hope I helped!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
i play softball i dont like it a lot cause im always busy now!. but i made a commitment so did u !. stick to that commitmenWww@Enter-QA@Com
If you're almost done with all you games just stick with it but if you just started then quit!. Whats the point of playing if your not having fun!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
life's to short to be doing something you hate!. I say quit !!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
talk to your coach and thenif you still want to quit then just do itWww@Enter-QA@Com
Quit it Girl Its ur life!Www@Enter-QA@Com
I take it that you're somewhere arounf 12-14 years old and in around the 7th grade!. This is a very difficult time in your life!. You want to fit in with the others but for some reason you are not being included as much as the others are!. I have been a girls sb coach for going on 18 years and I know how hard it is to get some players playing time especially when the other girls are playing better!. also, if your team is carrying 4 extra players your coaches are either having to carry 13 or 14 girls or the coaches don't trust all of the girls to show up for games (thereby risking a forfeit) or they are just being nice and letting more players on their team than is necessary!.
The most obvious thing to do is practice, practice, practice and become a better player thereby getting more playing time!.
You have to remember that now a days there are a LOT of young ladies recieving schlorships to great collages and universities because of softball!. Do you play in any other sports!? Can you get into collage with your grades!? Do you even want to go to collage!?
It may not seem like it now but being part of a team (no matter how small the part) is a great learning experiance and should not be taken lightly!. Even though you don't get to play as much as some of the others you are still part of the team and need to show your teammates and your coaches that you are a team player and are willing to do what it takes to get more playing time!.
As far as "hating" softball, from what you've said, I think you more hate not playing as much as the others!.
If you feel like any of my suggestions are undoable then find something else to do to replace softball!. Don't just quit all sports without having something to take it's place!.
Good luck!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
The most obvious thing to do is practice, practice, practice and become a better player thereby getting more playing time!.
You have to remember that now a days there are a LOT of young ladies recieving schlorships to great collages and universities because of softball!. Do you play in any other sports!? Can you get into collage with your grades!? Do you even want to go to collage!?
It may not seem like it now but being part of a team (no matter how small the part) is a great learning experiance and should not be taken lightly!. Even though you don't get to play as much as some of the others you are still part of the team and need to show your teammates and your coaches that you are a team player and are willing to do what it takes to get more playing time!.
As far as "hating" softball, from what you've said, I think you more hate not playing as much as the others!.
If you feel like any of my suggestions are undoable then find something else to do to replace softball!. Don't just quit all sports without having something to take it's place!.
Good luck!.Www@Enter-QA@Com