If you had to make a list of all the people that you have harmed, how long would!
Question: If you had to make a list of all the people that you have harmed, how long would it be!?
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to begin with, i know i hurt my parents when i was in my teens, but i've made amends for that, or at least we got past it!. parents have a way of forgiving their kids for being stupid!. i can't think of any friends i've hurt, not that i know of!. there's been a lot of things i've done, way back in those late teen years, that i regret, and i'm sure i must have hurt people along the way!. maybe even people i never met!. sometimes actions have a trickle down effect!. if i could remember them, i wouldn't need a reward as a motivation, my conscience is motivation enough!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I have done such a thing and there were many people on that list!.
I then made amends to such people "wherever possible", meaning that the opportunity will arise when you are ready!. It in not "whenever possible" so don't inflict pain on the people you have already wronged just to make yourself feel better by looking them up to remind them!. You will know when the time is right!.
Some things are best left untouched!. For example, if you cheated on your spouse and the spouse never knew about it, you would only harm them by telling them about it, just so you could feel self-righteous about making the amends!.
Not a good idea!.
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I then made amends to such people "wherever possible", meaning that the opportunity will arise when you are ready!. It in not "whenever possible" so don't inflict pain on the people you have already wronged just to make yourself feel better by looking them up to remind them!. You will know when the time is right!.
Some things are best left untouched!. For example, if you cheated on your spouse and the spouse never knew about it, you would only harm them by telling them about it, just so you could feel self-righteous about making the amends!.
Not a good idea!.
Pray for guidance in these matters and seek "qualified" counsel!. This might not always be your sponsor!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
its a very short list,from recollection,if anything,from some of things i may of done,the only person ive harmed is myself!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I can't think of anyone Ive harmed on purpose!.
WAIT!.!.there are a couple!.!.!.
I don't know that I would make amends!. I don't delight in others pain!.!.!.but I can be tricky!. BUT I have never really wounded someones heart or self (as far as I know)!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
WAIT!.!.there are a couple!.!.!.
I don't know that I would make amends!. I don't delight in others pain!.!.!.but I can be tricky!. BUT I have never really wounded someones heart or self (as far as I know)!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
The list is very short and none on purpose,its more the other way around!.!.!.If the people who have hurt me had to pay me i'd be rich! ^_^Www@Enter-QA@Com
No one with this account, maybe a few with my other account!. I hope you weren't talking about that other place (real world), it's almost as if that place didn't exist!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I wouldnt even need a list!.!.!.!.none!.Www@Enter-QA@Com