What is the proper way to deal with someone who is incredibly insecure: Cut '!
Question: What is the proper way to deal with someone who is incredibly insecure: Cut 'em loose or keep reassuring!?
The reassurance gets very wearing, and I'm tired of being responsible for their fears!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
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I think the answer is staring you in the face, doll!.
You are so pretty,
You don't look fat, not at all -
Now grow up, psycho!.
What do you want now!?
I have a life, you do too,
Get it together!.
Are we friends or not -
I can't save you all the time,
Too high maintenance!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
You are so pretty,
You don't look fat, not at all -
Now grow up, psycho!.
What do you want now!?
I have a life, you do too,
Get it together!.
Are we friends or not -
I can't save you all the time,
Too high maintenance!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Well it all depends on the relationship you have with this person!. Some people we just can't cut loose from our lives we are in fact stuck with them i!.e!. relatives either by blood or marriage!. In that instance encourage the person to seek professional help via counseling services!.
If the person is a co worker this can be tricky as to cut them loose can sometimes effect the working environment so in this instance seek out the employee assistance program which all employers are suppose to have (well at least those in the public sector)!. also encourage the individual to get counseling!. It does work and can help and many communities have affordable services available!.
If the individual is an acquaintance then by all means get him/her out of your life for you can not and should not feel at all responsible for their fears!. They are becoming a toxic person, one who will wear you down as you will never be able to satisfy their needs nor calm their fears!.
Good luck, (and people usually pay me for this stuff)!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
If the person is a co worker this can be tricky as to cut them loose can sometimes effect the working environment so in this instance seek out the employee assistance program which all employers are suppose to have (well at least those in the public sector)!. also encourage the individual to get counseling!. It does work and can help and many communities have affordable services available!.
If the individual is an acquaintance then by all means get him/her out of your life for you can not and should not feel at all responsible for their fears!. They are becoming a toxic person, one who will wear you down as you will never be able to satisfy their needs nor calm their fears!.
Good luck, (and people usually pay me for this stuff)!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Hmmm, the last time I got overly insecure about something -- I was told -- "That's enough!. !. !. I've said it!. I'm not saying it again!. So, just quit it!."
So, he didn't cut me loose, but he did tell me to get over it!.
We're buddies, I don't obsess and he gives me compliments when I deserve them!. It's cool!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
So, he didn't cut me loose, but he did tell me to get over it!.
We're buddies, I don't obsess and he gives me compliments when I deserve them!. It's cool!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Cut 'em loose!? Just cut 'em!. Or bust a cap in them!.
Seriously, they are not going to change until they take on their own lives!. I would tell them that it is getting hard for you to handle it and, for your relationship to continue/grow, they need to be proactive!. Then have them take the Landmark Forum (www!.landmarkeducation!.com)!. I used to be that insecure whiny guy and now am pretty secure and barely complain at all!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Seriously, they are not going to change until they take on their own lives!. I would tell them that it is getting hard for you to handle it and, for your relationship to continue/grow, they need to be proactive!. Then have them take the Landmark Forum (www!.landmarkeducation!.com)!. I used to be that insecure whiny guy and now am pretty secure and barely complain at all!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
IF it is wearing you down to the point you are becoming depressed or starting to feel negative, cut them loose! Everyone should be responsible for their own happiness, only then are they able to able to share with others!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Make it interesting!.!.!.keep reassuring them that you'll cut'em loose!. Pretty soon, their own insanity will confine them to their closet and you'll have killed two birds with one, emotionally abusive stone!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
You don't have to cut them loose!.!.!. just find an excuse to get away whenever they try to complain, or tell them about it so that they change!. Some people just don't realize the impression they give!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Cut them loose!. A kind word now and then is nice but it isn't your responsibility to make or break how someone feels about them self!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Best to cut them loose!. You may find that in doing so they turn on you so be ready!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Just break it to them softly!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
counselling, they need help!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I am afraid to answer this question!. Can you help me!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
I work with a guy like that!.!.!.at first I use to reassure him!.!.but that crap gets old!.!.!.Now, I just ignore him!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I reassure my insecure friends, but I agree it does get tiring and I don't know what to do either!. Good luck!Www@Enter-QA@Com
It's me; isn't it!?
You're not leaving me and our children, are you!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
You're not leaving me and our children, are you!?Www@Enter-QA@Com