I need your advice what would you do?!
Question: I need your advice what would you do!?
My boyfriend went to a party & cheated on me!. The girl told my bff she had sex with my boyfriend!. For 3 days I kept talking about this girl!. I brought her up every chance I got!. He lied to my face!. He said he does not know her!. Later that night he told me the truth!. I moved out & broke up with him!. I still love him with all my heart!. We were together for 6 years!. He keeps calling wanting me to take him back!. We were going to get married & spend our lives together!. What would you do!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
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Oh my God, you poor thing, right now you must feel confused, angry, hurt and worthless!. But you are not! You are a victim of a cheating ex and your heart is telling you one thing and your head is telling you another!. i have been in this situation before and know how you are feeling!. Believe or not, but you must listen to your heart, as well!. Because you will never get over this unless you follow it first!. My advice to you is to make friends with him mutually!. No Strings!. Then go out places and tell him you are disappointed in him, scare him a little give him a warning that if he ever so much as kisses girl you will leave him forever and break his neck (or something like that) and see how things go, if he hurts you again, you will have realized that he can't change and is not Worth your time!.
So the first thing to do, hon, is break from him for a week, let him think things over and realize what he has done, then call him, but take it slow and don't let him know you have forgiven him!. But NEVER forget what he id, and NEVER trust him again, or at least till he has really changed!.
Good luck x I wish you the very best!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
So the first thing to do, hon, is break from him for a week, let him think things over and realize what he has done, then call him, but take it slow and don't let him know you have forgiven him!. But NEVER forget what he id, and NEVER trust him again, or at least till he has really changed!.
Good luck x I wish you the very best!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
face it he cheated,he lied,he lost
he's lying once more!. if he truly loved you he would not have cheated!. true love is above that,clearly he did not love you enough to restrain sin!. scum like that is not worth forgiveness!. if you go back to him you may end up hurt once more!.!.!.!.but,hey, its one souls opinion do what your heart tells you,do what you feel is your path to happiness!.!.!.after all we all must share the burden life but only one must hold the burden of ones choice!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
he's lying once more!. if he truly loved you he would not have cheated!. true love is above that,clearly he did not love you enough to restrain sin!. scum like that is not worth forgiveness!. if you go back to him you may end up hurt once more!.!.!.!.but,hey, its one souls opinion do what your heart tells you,do what you feel is your path to happiness!.!.!.after all we all must share the burden life but only one must hold the burden of ones choice!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Maybe you should make sure you have the FULL story first!. And if you truly love him maybe you can find it in your heart to forgive him!. Everyone deserves a second chance if they tell you the full truth!. And if anything happens again remind him he only has one more chance!. I hope you work things out!. Let me know how it goesWww@Enter-QA@Com
I would dump him!. Guys can seem charming and you could be in love with them but if he cheated on you- how do you know that he hasn't dont it before and won't do it again!.
If you are even asking this question then you know that you don't fully trust this guy and you won't be sure of him ever again!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
If you are even asking this question then you know that you don't fully trust this guy and you won't be sure of him ever again!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Why do women always need to ask this question!. Use your head why the hell would you want to be with guy that cheats on you at all!. Don't degrade yourself by being with someone who would treat you this way!. Think a little higher of yourself and get rid of trash like that!. You WILL get over him and you CAN find a guy that won't cheat!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Only you know!.!.!. Personally, I don't believe in "once cheater, always a cheater" but once you cheat on ME, I can't fogive you!.
Which would you prefer!? Which way can you live!? Can you live with him knowing what he did!? Can you live without him!?
THINK LONG TERM! Don't you think you might really miss him now but in 2 months, you'' realize you never really forgave him and you don't "love him with all you're heart"Www@Enter-QA@Com
Which would you prefer!? Which way can you live!? Can you live with him knowing what he did!? Can you live without him!?
THINK LONG TERM! Don't you think you might really miss him now but in 2 months, you'' realize you never really forgave him and you don't "love him with all you're heart"Www@Enter-QA@Com
No you did the right thing!. The trust is gone in your relationship!. The best move is the hardest move!. It'd be so easy to take him back, but would you really want that in the long run!?
I'd get rid of him, and better my life!. Happiness is the best revenge!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'd get rid of him, and better my life!. Happiness is the best revenge!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
You did the right thing!. But you can sort it out if you believe you want to spend the rest of your life with him!. Sometimes people make stupid mistakes!. I'd find it very very hard to forgive but some people can forgive and lead a happy life!. It's up to you - is he really worth it!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
It's up to you but if it were me I'd try to move on!.!.!.It sucks being cheated but that's what that person chose to do!. I know the love is strong there and it may hurt but that would be it for me!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Give it time!. Make him suffer!. Once a cheater, almost always a cheater! If you give in right away, he'll feel he got away with it!. I am 50 years old and have dealt with this, so please don't think I'm answering you just to practice my typing!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Ok, well I say if you REALLY like him!.!.!.!.
like that other person said!.!.!.
Can you live with knowing he did cheat on you and marry him!.!.!.!. or can you just be single!?
Its your choice! But, I say give him another chance!
If he does it again though he's gone!
No more dating him if he does it again!
SMILE GOD LOVES YOU! =DWww@Enter-QA@Com
like that other person said!.!.!.
Can you live with knowing he did cheat on you and marry him!.!.!.!. or can you just be single!?
Its your choice! But, I say give him another chance!
If he does it again though he's gone!
No more dating him if he does it again!
SMILE GOD LOVES YOU! =DWww@Enter-QA@Com
I understated you have deep feeling after 6 yrs ,But he cheated on you and lied!.This would not make for a good Husband or a marriage!.Please try and Move on!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
realize he may not be the one but its not a bad character trait to be forgiving!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Dont go back to him
If he wasnt up front with what he did at first
How do you know he is not going to be doing something behind your back throughout your whole relationshipWww@Enter-QA@Com
If he wasnt up front with what he did at first
How do you know he is not going to be doing something behind your back throughout your whole relationshipWww@Enter-QA@Com
NOWAY! Screw me once, shame on you Screw me twice, shame on me!. MOVE ONWww@Enter-QA@Com
If he truly cared about you he wouldn't do something like that to you!. Go find yourself a good man!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
thats up to you!. 1st time cheater!? hmmm, remember once a cheater always a cheater!. i would probably say hell noWww@Enter-QA@Com
I would become a Tiger right then!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.you know why= Tigers are born with InstinctsWww@Enter-QA@Com
You should sleep with the girl he slept with then call a cheating truce until he cheats on you again!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
this really isn't a poll!.!.!.shouldn't this be in the relationship deptWww@Enter-QA@Com
I would NOT go back to him!. Once a cheater always a cheater!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
If the trust is gone, there is no hope for your relationship!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
get back with him and forgive him if u reely want him!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
if he truly loved you he wouldn't of cheated, i would just leaveWww@Enter-QA@Com
he cheated, dats decided itWww@Enter-QA@Com
forget about him!. hes obviously a douche!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
he cheated once,he will cheat againWww@Enter-QA@Com
beat his *** and leave him!Www@Enter-QA@Com
forgive him and if he does it again then then kick him in his n*ts!Www@Enter-QA@Com