POLL" does it bother you when women have ABORTIONS?!


Question: POLL" does it bother you when women have ABORTIONS!?
just becuase it is not "convenient" for them to have a kid right
now!?Www@Enter-QA@Com


Answers:
yes it does!. keep those legs CLOSEDWww@Enter-QA@Com

No it doesn't bother me at all!. Some times people get abortions because of money problems because of unforeseen seen circumstances there to young or there just not ready!. Its really not any ones right to tell people they cant have one!. Say you are pregnant but don't have money for the medical care for the baby's medical care for the baby's food or diapers, You say the child should just tough it out!? It to me would seem best to have the abortion to save the child from a life of misery!. Say you where raped and became impregnated the woman should keep the child because of her being to weak or fearful to fight them off!? No because she will see that child as the child that came to be because she was raped!. Say that you are the age of 13-16 and going to have a kid, fact you higher percentage to die while giving birth to the child when you are that young!. So the young lady should have it because she was not smart enough to close her legs and you can't go to most high schools pregnant and defiantly not to any middle schools pregnant so education has to wait!. There are good reasons to have an abortion!. I believe its to the couple to decide to have it or not!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

It only bothers me when people get pregnant out of their own stupidity, like taking their chances without protection!. If they're being an idiot and not being careful, then it's their fault and a baby shouldn't be punished for that!. -- As for raising the kid, the kid doesn't have to suffer because the mother doesn't have to do it! Give it up for adoption to a family that'll care for it!.!.!.

Otherwise, I'm pro-choice!. It's their body first and foremost, and they're not murdering the baby if it's not even alive yet!. If they go through all the pre-cautions to avoid it and end up pregnant anyways, then they shouldn't be forced to have a baby they were trying to prevent!.

But since there's no way to tell the difference between the two, I guess people will still use abortions as a form of birth control!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Yes, it does bother me!.
I have a friend who is now mildly physically and mildly mentally disabled because her "mom" tried to have an abortion too late in her pregnancy!.
My friend has one of the most beautiful souls she is so kind and so open minded!.
It hurts to see her now knowing that she could of been born a perfectly healthy baby mentally and physically!.
So my opinion is "NO" to abortion, some people may think it is best, like they just can't have a baby right now, but what I would have to say to them is get over it!!!
You did what you did, and that is that, live with it!
I mean there are some situations that it could be different, like if the girl was raped, and the child had a pretty good chance of being overly physically and mentally disabled, and would never be able to walk or talk, or even breathe on his/her own then yeah, why put a human through that pain!?
But just because it isn't convenient!? No!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Well, you have to think about this!. Sometimes some women aren't fit to have a child, and perhaps having a child will kill both of them!. Sometimes if they do have a child, the rest of their lives may be ruined!. One of my friends made a huge mistake last year and ended up pregnant, but she was only 14!. Now if she had a child, it would ruin her school career, her dating life and probably her work career too!. Now how would you feel if you were in that position!? She couldn't even tell her parents, they would have literally disowned her!. She had to have her sister take her and get and abortion!.


Or, what if you were raped and ended up pregnant!? The choice to have sex wasn't yours!. How can you be burdened with a child that you did not even want!?

Or if you are again too young, or in a bad finacial state!. It may be better for you and the child if you got an abortion!.

Now, I'm not saying it's right, but you have to take into consideration that the choice isn't easy for the mother either!. They will be burdened with this for the rest of their lives!. You shouldn't be judging women for the choice they may have to make!. Try looking at their side first!. If you were 14 and pregnant, what would you do!? Sometimes abortion is the best choice!.

I'm not saying I'm for abortions, but I'm pro-choice!. Everyone should have a choice in what will change the rest of their lives!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Yes it does in most circumstances!. On a personal level!. I had a friend who was contemplating this and I kind of schooled her a bit!. She refuses to go on any birth control (because she hates "taking pills")!. She and her boyfriend don't feel it is the right time (they are both in their mid-late twenties)!. However, she waited so long to contemplate this that if she were to do it now it would be a "D&E" abortiion!. Ridiculous!. I told her the best and most responsible thing would be for her to consider adoption!. Of course she refuses to do that becuase she "could never give her baby away"!.

I would never support a goverment that would try interfere with a woman and her doctor's own personal choice, but on a day to day level I try to advocate for personal responsibility!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Yes!. It kills a baby (that will never get the chance to vote in a question like this, I might add)!. For those of you who say "it's the woman's choice", maybe the woman should have chosen not to have sex if she did'nt want the potential consequences!. I also think it's odd that if a woman has an abortion we call it "choice", but if that same woman, while still pregnant, is killed by a drunk driver on her way to an abortion clinic, we call it double murder!. And while I'm on the topic of double standards I'll point out that a minor can have an abortion without a legal guardian present, but a minor who is bleeding to death can't get into an emergency room without a legal guardian!. If women want a choice, they should choose not to have sex, not choose to kill their child!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Children are not a minor "inconvenience" Raising them takes strength, intelligence, lots of money, energy and responsibility!. No one should enter motherhood lightly!. Anyone who would ask a question like this is demeaning children, motherhood, women, and themselves!. Anyone who doesn't want an abortion shouldn't have one!. Anyone who thinks the government should have the right to choose for a woman is simply wrong and against American freedom!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

No,
it shouldn't be anyone's concern, except for the mother and the father!. I had an abortion and it's been really hard to get through it, but it was NOT convenient for me to have one because I have my whole life ahead of me and don't need to be worrying about another's life when I'm not ready!. I would rather have a child whenever I'm able to support it, and I would NEVER put my child up for adoption!. A lot of stupid people on here are going to say that they don't believe in it but frankly unless you've actually been pregnant and been really scared and confused then you have no idea where anybody's coming from!. And I think it's completely pathetic that women will sit here and say that abortions are bad, whenever it's the right to choose what we want to do with our bodies!Www@Enter-QA@Com

i think if a women decides to have sex out of wedlock, then they should except the responsibility for there actions!. the unborn child should not suffer for you irresponsible behavior!. there are some cases were abortions are understandable, but I will not go so far as stating what those circumstances are!. But that is my opinion!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

ABORTIONS isn't about being a whore!. If you think that then you better be a virgin and no nothing about how babies are made!.
Anyone that has sex has the chance of having a baby!. NO MATTER HOW SAFE YOU THINK YOU ARE!!

Abortions doesn't make me mad or happy!. Abortions makes me sad!. There is a story behind it!. A women that doesn't feel she will be loved if she has the baby!. A women in fear of what is to come to have a baby with no support!.

Making a women fell even more worthless than she already does isn't going to make them stop looking to Abortions for help!.

Put yourself in that womens shoes before you try to kill them with your words!. THEN and just THEN will you have a chance in helping them to choice to have the baby instead of Abortions!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

It's their life!. If they are mature enough to have sex, then they should be mature enough to understand and handle the consequences!. They should be old enough to know what is right and wrong FOR THEM, not what society says!. If they feel no remorse about having an abortion, then go right ahead!. Although, if they do feel remorse but do so anyway, they're making the wrong choice for themselves because, in the end, the were never 100% happy with the choice they made!. Personally, I don't agree with abortion, but I'm not one to go around and force other people to have the same views as I do!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

yes, but it also bothers me when I see someone have a child who doesn't want it or take care of it!. if your were beaten and/or raped every day of your short life and child services would not do anything about it you would probably wish you were not born either!. we don't live in a perfect world!. it must be nice to only see children who are taken care of every day with loving parents!. I know there are options, but they don't work for everyone!. I've never had an abortion, but I don't judge!. that's someone else's job!.
imagine if there were no more abortions, I hate to say it, but imagine how much taxes would have to go up to support all these kids! welfare,education!.!.!.!.do you no how much public school costs taxpayers a year for 1 child!?
now, if it were the men who had the babies!.!.!.a clinic on every corner!.
*married women sometimes have abortions too!. I swear some people must live in caves!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

No, not at all!. It's not our lives at all!. For instance, it might not be convenient to them for many reasons!. Beside effecting the mother's life, it would effect the childs life as well!. I would rather the woman didn't have the baby, than she had a child and raised it horribly, in standards not appropriate for any child to grow up in!.


It's not your life, why do you even care!?Www@Enter-QA@Com

No, women who do not want children are best not to bring any into the world!. Not every women is cut out for child rearing!. I think, though, that if this is the case, they should practice safe sex, to avoid abortion!. You know that is not going o happen!. Teenage girls are getting pregnant at an alarming rate, on purpose!. Why, I don't know, sho pays for ths stupidity, the tax payer, you and me!. How to stop it, counseling and education and free birth control!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

No it bothers me more when woman have kids they can't afford then rely only on child support and the government like a lazy person!.
A kid is a choice and a luxury that i should not have to pay for!. Just like when somebody buys a car i shouldn't have to pay for it if you can't afford it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

No!.!.
even tho its not something i think i could ever do, i still think its a womens right to choose, so if a women feels she doesn't want to have a baby at this time well then they shouldn't have to!.!.

but it does bother me when women have multiple abortions like one after another and partial birth abortions!.!.in that case its wrong cause there abusing there right to chooseWww@Enter-QA@Com

abortion = murder that simple i live in arizona there are alot of toddler drownings parents are home sleeping talking on the phone while their toddlers end up in the bottom of a pool the media calls it a tradegic accident parents are not arrested if it happened at a daycare you can bet there would be an arrest so parents here is your second chance at murdering your child and getting away with itWww@Enter-QA@Com

Yeah!.!.!. :( No one has the right to determine when a human becomes a human and then destroying them when they know they're pregnant!. What comes of pregnancy!? Having a baby!. What's a baby!? A human!. What's a human!? Life!. What's abortion!? Death!.

If you say you're pregnant but then say you are having an abortion and THEN say IT is not a baby then someone needs to redo the definition for "pregnant"!.

*gets off soap box*Www@Enter-QA@Com

It bothers me that ppl use abortions as their form of "Birth Control," however if a person is unable to offer a child good quality of life, which is very important, then no-- abortion does not bother me!. I do not feel its right to abort an innocent child but you don't always know the situations that people are in and the home environment that they come from!. You know convenience goes further than just my life is too good right now, many teenagers get pregnant before they even know what they are doing is wrong-- today sex is everywhere and its not talked about the way that it should be, the when where and why of it!. I blame many of the abortions in this world on parents who are too busy with their own lives to realize that their children need them--that their children are screaming out for their attention, but parents are too busy at work, on the phone and making themselves look good in the public eye, all the while looking pathetic bc they are not involved in the lives that they have created!.!.!.!.!.!.if you are not ready, able, and willing to raise a child, to put that child's needs above your own, to provide for that child until it is grown (and then some more), then I feel that abortion is OK!.!.!.!.maybe ppl want to create a life for themselves before they try to create a life for another person!.!.!.go to college, get a job (so that you are able to provide for the child), a husband, make a home for the child before bringing a child into the world, and maybe some ppl think that they do want children, however when they turn the news on they realize that the world we live in may not be as child friendly as we like to think!.!.!.

different circumstances means different choices!.!.!.different rights and wrong, who am I to say you are wrong for your opinion, for your choices!.!.!.who am I to judge you!.!.!. I am no one and its your life, its your choice and YOU above all have to live with your choices, your decisions, your mistakes or your triumphs!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

not really!. some have everything going for them and then something happens!. and then they'll have a screwed up life as well as their kids!.

personally i think it is okay as long as theres a good reason for it!. but if its just cause "i didnt feel like using a condom" then no!. so it depends on how far they were heading in life anyway!. so no its not really right, but some do have their reasons!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

no!.
it is there choice not mine!.
i just do not understand why people always say and protest abortions kill!. but they do not even think about the poor homeless children that starve, and die of sick diseases everyday!. people who protest abortions are pathetic!. the women can do whatever she wants it is he body!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I think it would bother me more if the woman decides to have the baby and the child grows up neglected and abused or starve to death!. More complications to both lives!.

There are so many people having children and they can't even afford to let them live normally!. That's the world's problem!. Billions of children! and they say children are our future!? they have no future living like that!. The only future is death!. So better just have the abortion!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I was all for abortion awhile ago, but my position has changed!. Just by observing women and their behaviors!.
It does bother me, especially when it happen to me!. When the girl wanted to abort and I didn't!. A very valuable lesson!!!!Www@Enter-QA@Com

Yes with all of the birth control available and sometimes it's provided free there is no reason for abortion just because it's not convenient

You can always choose to have the baby and then put it up for adoption, Adoption is much better than abortionWww@Enter-QA@Com

Yes!. So many people think that abortion is a woman's choice for her body!. What people don't often consider is, while the woman's body is pregnant, there is another life inside!. For them to take that life is wrong!.

If it wasn't convenient for them to have a child, they shouldn't have put themselves in a situation that got them pregnant!. It's never the baby's fault and it's unforgivably selfish for a woman to take a baby's life because she can't make wise decisions!.

UPDATE: I was raped my first year in college and I didn't abort my baby!. I gave it up for adoption!. That child is now living a happy and healthy life with a family who loves her!. Rape isn't an excuse to kill a baby!. Two wrongs don't make a right!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

yes it bothers me very much!.!.!.
there are so many people out there who cant have babies and would love to have and care for a baby and you kill yours!.!.!.have it and give it up for adoption!.!.!.i don't care how you got pregnant (unless by family member) you don't want it then give birth and give it away properly who gives you the right to kill!?! (yes i know it isn't "alive" when you have abortions) that is just how i feel!.
excuses:
**you didnt want to get pregnant - then give it up for adoption
**you got raped - sad story but your still alive so give it up for adoption
**by a (raped)family member - sadly abortion because baby is more than likely to be born retarded or "special" and that is no way to live, through all the complications if it even lives!!
**you don't have money for a kid right now - then give birth and give it up for adoption!!
** your too young to have a baby - give it up for adoption you shouldnt be f*cking @ at a young age n e way!(unless it was rape)
**your not married at the moment - ever heard of protection or birth control!? - give it up for adoption!Www@Enter-QA@Com

Depends, if they were raped, I would understand!. But if they had unprotected sex then yes it bothers me!.
If you have unprotected sex then you better be responsible for your child, otherwise you should have had protected sex!.
I really dont understand how people who are NOT married or ready to have babies would have unprotected sex, "loving" each other is not a valid reason, if you really love each other then you would use protection because that would be the best for both of you!. Please people dont be stupid and be protected when having sex unless you are ready for a baby!
really, its common sense!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

It bothers me BIG TIME!.

Example:

In a field there are millions of fruit trees!.
Millions!.
They're all the same looking on the outside, but until their bare fruit we can't see if their peach trees or apple trees or plum trees!.

So we raise these trees until they reach maturity!.
They grow long graceful limbs, exotic leaves and strong steady trunks!.

And then, they bloom!.
Its beautiful, the scent, the sight, the touch, every part of these flowers is intoxicating, its hard not to be near them, its like a type of drug!.

Suddenly, on small tree in the back, starts to bud fruit!.
And we see it, and we're upset at this outcome, where are the blooms!? Thats what we wanted, thats why we grew these trees, for the sweet smelling flowers, we've never seen fruit like this, we're afraid and won't even think about touching or tasting it!.

So we cut the fruit before it ripens!.
It hits the ground, and we leave it to rot because we won't dare touch this alien sin that came from our beautiful flowers death!.

Now, most of the fruit rots and molds, its ugly to look at, so we don't look!.
Its sad to talk about, so we keep our mouths shut!.
We notice the other trees growing small green buds on them, more fruit!.
We fear the outcome and decide something rash in our fear!.
We burn the entire field, watching every part of the tree light up, and even though we see this is wrong, we see it as a better out come than the fruit we don't understand!.

We didn't even give the fruit a chance, we didn't even temp the idea it might be good, safe, perhaps even life saving!.

The field looks empty now, barren and burnt!.
Its black and saddening!.
A little boy wandering the field finds a piece of fruit in the ashes that some how survived!.
He brushes the baked soil back and retrieves the fruit, and eats it!.

Later that year, his entire family dies of a rare plague!.
He is the only survivor!.
Would he have lived without the fruit!? Maybe, maybe not!.
Would his family have lived if offered a single bite!? Now we'll never know!.
We never gave it a chance!.

Every life snuffed out before birth is a doctor, who might cure cancer, autism, or aids!.
A lawyer, who will put away a pedophile before he rapes a dismembers your child!.
A general who makes a decision to keep us out of war by uttering a single breath!.
A teacher who would have taught all these children the knowledge they needed to even be a doctor, a lawyer, a general!.

Do you see our mistake!?


"Am I Not A Man and A Brother!?"

This is not for abortion, this was for slavery in a time when they were looked at the same way an unborn child is now, a soulless, animal that we can treat however we want because it is property and not a person!.

Do you see the need for change!?Www@Enter-QA@Com

Yes!. I'm not opposed to abortion rights as a rule, but it strains the limits of morality when married women who plan to eventually have children get abortions just because it's "not the right time!." That's taking it far too lightly!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

no not if it is becuase it is not "convenient" to have a kid right now they should use protection if that is the case !
but in general i think it depends on the situation the person giving the abortion is in because i cannot judge otherwiseWww@Enter-QA@Com



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