Is "forgive and forget" an unrealistic or all-advised suggestion?!


Question: Is "forgive and forget" an unrealistic or all-advised suggestion!?
When someone does me wrong, I'm supposed to "forgive and forget!." My thought is okay, if they're sorry I may FORGIVE!.!.!.but forgetting (or acting as if it never happened) is just plain stupid!. I can forgive you for doing me wrong, but letting you have another chance to do it is not a good idea!.

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I forgive because you never know if the person you offended knows a hot girl, who could later meet you and want to bed you, but would never even think of doing that if the person you offended gave them a bad rap about you!.
Yeah, I'm an opportunistic manipulator; but I was born that way!.

As far as forgetting goes, well, it's not hard for me as I have the memory retention of a 4 year old!.!.!.a 4 year old with ADD!.!.!.and ADHD!.!.!.and early onset dementia!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I will Forgive and Forget!.!.!.and This is why!.:
When you do not forget, it affects you, and you ONLY, nobody else, will feel the same way you are feeling at the moment, It will only affect you!!! You will be depress and mad at that person forever, only affecting your well being
So, why wasting your time in not forgive and forget, when you can be worrying about other things, that are more meaningful to you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Forgive and forget! Why don't you just call it dumb and dumber! I can forgive but I won't ever forget it!. That doesn't mean that I no longer trust that person any longer it just means that if they pull that same crap on me again then it's gonna be bad!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

My favorite quote

"The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget"
Thomas SzaszWww@Enter-QA@Com

That quote confuses me a bit too!.
You can truly forgive someone, but you will never really forget their mistake or wrongdoing!. It will always be a memory that can't be erased!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I agree 100%!. Forgive is one thing!. Forgetting is pretty tricky to accomplish!. I hear ya about the not letting history repeat itself, Www@Enter-QA@Com

Yes!. It's rather hard for me to forgive others, and I sure as hell am not going to forget the wrongdoing anytime soon!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I guess it's healthy if you can forgive and forget!. I can forgive, but I don't forget!. Do me wrong and I will remember!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I forget where I put my keys on a regular basis and yet I can't forget junk people have done to me 20 years ago :) It's not that I harbor hate for them!.!.!.I just become careful around people who harm me!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

Never forget!.!.!.NEVER!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Forgive, but don't forgetWww@Enter-QA@Com

Same here!.Www@Enter-QA@Com



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