Would it bother you if YOUR SPOUSE / MATE......?!
Question: Would it bother you if YOUR SPOUSE / MATE!.!.!.!.!.!.!?
were friends with someone of the opposite sex!?
what if that person was very VERY good looking, would that change things!?
and do you believe that men and women can be JUST friends even if there is an attraction!?
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what if that person was very VERY good looking, would that change things!?
and do you believe that men and women can be JUST friends even if there is an attraction!?
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Answers:
MyLover has plenty of female friends and some are very nice looking, the reason I do not get upset if he hangs with them talks to them is 'cause he comes home to me and there is no other woman he would rather be with than me, I know this for a fact!
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Ive been there done that!. Men and women cannot be JUST friends!. It cant happen! I cannot count how many times ive heard the old story from random people where it starts out, "we were just friends at the beginning"!. Eventually something WILL happen!. It doesn't mean that he or she will cheat with the person, but the other person my try and "make a move"!. Either way NOTHING good can come out of it!. The fact is, if it makes your "significant other" uncomfortable the person in the friendship should stop the friendship!. If they dont, then they dont care enough about the relationship to make the other person in the relationship comfortable!.
IN A RELATIONSHIP IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO INSURE THAT THE PERSON YOU ARE WITH IS SECURE WITH YOU AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP!. IF THE PERSON DOES NOT, THE RELATIONSHIP WILL FAIL!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
IN A RELATIONSHIP IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO INSURE THAT THE PERSON YOU ARE WITH IS SECURE WITH YOU AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP!. IF THE PERSON DOES NOT, THE RELATIONSHIP WILL FAIL!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I would not have problems with my spouse having a friend of the opp!. sex!. He does!. Do not care that they are good looking!.
If they were attracted to each other, flirted or acted on it, then it is not a friendship!. I would have a problem with that!.
If my husband was a cheater - no opp!. sex friends!. What a miserable existence that would be!. Choose carefully my friends!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
If they were attracted to each other, flirted or acted on it, then it is not a friendship!. I would have a problem with that!.
If my husband was a cheater - no opp!. sex friends!. What a miserable existence that would be!. Choose carefully my friends!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
no , it would not bother me on any of it!. if i was to marry a man , he would be worthy of my complete trust!. marriage is not just about sex , lust , and desire!. it is a commitment that requires trust , respect , friendship , and love!. if my !.!.husband!.!.were to cheat on me , it would be over!.!.!.no second chance!. a women is supposed to keep her husband happy [ in ALL areas ] !. if she can not provide that for her husband!.!.!. he will most likely find someone who will !. Www@Enter-QA@Com
no, as long as I knew his heart was with me!.!.!.which, I'd need to know even if he didn't have an attractive friend of the opposite sex!.!.!.and if I didn't know that, I wouldn't be with him!. Life is too short to worry about stuff like that!.!.!.some people just can't be faithful, and that's fine, but not worth my time or pain!. But , having friends of the opposite sex doesn't mean one isn't faithful!. I have tons of male friends who are married and single!.!.!.not even a chance impropriety!. If there was an attraction ( I have great looking male friends that I'm not in the least attracted to!.!.), I'd back off if they (or I) were in a relationship!. But naive as this sounds, I don't get "attracted" to other men when I'm in a realtionship!.!.!.really!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Nope what bothers me is when you get lied to about the friendship !.!.!. then that changes the whole issue !.!.!. bugt yes men and women can be friends easily !.!.!. but when fancies the other there is a whole new issue !.!.!. one of my best mates is female and we have known each other since school but their is no attraction either way which is why we remain friendsWww@Enter-QA@Com
it doesn"t bother me or my partner in the slightest!.
i have a lot of close male friends who i see and talk to a lot, my partner has a lot of female friends who he see"s and talk"s to a lot also!.!.
their looks wouldn"t change things either, we trust each other 100%Www@Enter-QA@Com
i have a lot of close male friends who i see and talk to a lot, my partner has a lot of female friends who he see"s and talk"s to a lot also!.!.
their looks wouldn"t change things either, we trust each other 100%Www@Enter-QA@Com
I have a really good guy freind(not gay) and he's good looking, and we are JUST friends!.!.!.!.I am in a relationship and so is he!. We just get along really well, why should it matter if he's a guy or a girl!. If he was a girl, noone would even say anything, but because he's a guy, there's a double standard that we Must be sexually attracted!.!.!.when we're not!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
with my current mate it wouldn't bother me Past mate, who was very good looking and a giant flirt, it bothered me alot!.
I think there probably is some sort of an attraction but not necessarily sexualWww@Enter-QA@Com
I think there probably is some sort of an attraction but not necessarily sexualWww@Enter-QA@Com
No it wouldn't bother me as I have more male friends than I do female friends and I do believe that men and women can be just friends Www@Enter-QA@Com
yeah a little if they were really good friends but i would like to see how they act around each other first!. And it would depend on what i thought of the other person!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
no i wouldn't be jealous cus i know he wouldn't be with me if he didn't love me Www@Enter-QA@Com
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It's perfectly fine!. !.Www@Enter-QA@Com
No, because I have friends of both sexes myself!. The only way I would get mad is if they came onto my ole man in front of me!. I trust him so I have no worries there!. LOLWww@Enter-QA@Com
not even gonna comment it pisses her off when i talk to another chick who iv known along time and r just friends withWww@Enter-QA@Com
It might make me feel a little strange!. Maybe I'd talk to my spouse/mate and see if there really was something up but I doubt it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
yes, its all a matter of trust,
besides
friendship is NOT ownershipWww@Enter-QA@Com
besides
friendship is NOT ownershipWww@Enter-QA@Com
It would be ok with me!.!. its all about trust!.!. im still friends with my x-s
no being pretty wouldnt change nothing !.!. cause he thinks im beautiful anyways!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
no being pretty wouldnt change nothing !.!. cause he thinks im beautiful anyways!.Www@Enter-QA@Com