My daughter's father is coming home from his trip to Ireland...?!
Question: My daughter's father is coming home from his trip to Ireland!.!.!.!?
And he wants to see her!. He wasn't there for the birth and he has never seen her!. Would you let him see her!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
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Okay Chica Bonita, this is my dos pesos worth!.!.!. It would depend a little (in my mind) on how old the child was!. A court would likely would allow the father to be in the child's life to some extent!. I'm sure it doesn't feel fair or right and that is reasonable!. Tell him the child needs stability and since he's not going to be in her life on a full-time basis that you and he can arrange for visits!. If he has a problem with that then he can take it to a court; as they'll just set up the routine for him and you'll get that stability with or without his willing consent!.
Still!.!.!.considering he's coming back from Ireland, I say that when he knocks on your door, you should open it and give him a swift kick in the Lucky Charms!.
For added effect, you might also want to say to him (while using your best Irish accent) "how's THAT beeeeatch!?!"Www@Enter-QA@Com
Still!.!.!.considering he's coming back from Ireland, I say that when he knocks on your door, you should open it and give him a swift kick in the Lucky Charms!.
For added effect, you might also want to say to him (while using your best Irish accent) "how's THAT beeeeatch!?!"Www@Enter-QA@Com
There's a lot of information missing here!.
How long has he been away!?
How old is your daughter!?
Why wasn't he present for the birth!?
He has been on a trip to Ireland - is he Irish!? does he have visa problems!? Is that why he was away!? Or is he just a loser!?
Regardless, he does have a legal right to see his daughter!. You can make it as unpleasant as you like, but in the long-term, will that make life easier or more difficult for your daughter!? If you're not ready to meet him, then maybe get another member of your family to be there with your daughter when he visits!. Or explain to him that you are very hurt by his absence and ask him to wait until you are ready before he comes to see his daughter!. This is not a temporary problem!. The two of you made your daughter together and will be tied by this for the rest of your lives!. Consider the relationship your daughter may want to have with her father later in life before you make a decision regarding his access to her!. She may resent you later in life if you drive him away completely!.
Of course, if this man is in any way abusive, your first priority is to protect yourself and your child!. If this is a relationship that went wrong or that never really got off the ground, and he's not a truly bad guy, then you need to give hime the chance to be involved!. She is his daughter too!.
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How long has he been away!?
How old is your daughter!?
Why wasn't he present for the birth!?
He has been on a trip to Ireland - is he Irish!? does he have visa problems!? Is that why he was away!? Or is he just a loser!?
Regardless, he does have a legal right to see his daughter!. You can make it as unpleasant as you like, but in the long-term, will that make life easier or more difficult for your daughter!? If you're not ready to meet him, then maybe get another member of your family to be there with your daughter when he visits!. Or explain to him that you are very hurt by his absence and ask him to wait until you are ready before he comes to see his daughter!. This is not a temporary problem!. The two of you made your daughter together and will be tied by this for the rest of your lives!. Consider the relationship your daughter may want to have with her father later in life before you make a decision regarding his access to her!. She may resent you later in life if you drive him away completely!.
Of course, if this man is in any way abusive, your first priority is to protect yourself and your child!. If this is a relationship that went wrong or that never really got off the ground, and he's not a truly bad guy, then you need to give hime the chance to be involved!. She is his daughter too!.
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That is terrible!. I am sorry that you had to go through that alone!. While it is awful that he wasn't there to support you, perhaps you should think about the future when making this decision!. Is he someone who is going to be a big part of your daughters life (will he help raise her!? take care of her!? spend time with her!?) Or is he planning on being a dead beat dad who never comes around!? If you feel like he is going to be in her life, then you should let him meet her!. If you think he will just meet her and disappear again for a while then no way! That kind of behavior could hurt your child in the long run!. Best of luck to you and your little girl! Www@Enter-QA@Com
of course!. after all, it is her father!. besides, it would be an awesome opportunity for her to get to know him, to get close to him!. it wouldn't be so good of an idea if the daughter grew up knowing she never had a father or doesnt even know she did!. the father has a right to see his own daughter, even if he wasnt there for his wife's birthWww@Enter-QA@Com
Yes for the sake of the child if he is asking and you dont feel he would be harming her, then it is good for him to see her, and let your issues with him be between you!. Your daughter will one day figure out on her own if he is any good!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
it is never to late to fix those broken bridges!. maybe this guy has realised a few things!. my kids have no father and i wish everyday they had a father who was capable of loving them!. even if he has hurt you in the past or has not been there for her give him a chance to make it better!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I dont know!. That is a personal choice and I would just think about it yourself!. Don't be asking people on yahoo answers if it is appropriate!. Ask yourself if YOU think it is appropriate!.
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Yes, as long as he plans on staying in her life!. You want the father to be there for her, but if he doesnt plan on always being there, it will hurt you both more:)Www@Enter-QA@Com
Ooooh, if he's a good dad and genuinely wants to see her then let him!. He might be a jerk and all but some things just need to happen!.
<~~~~ ex wife is keeping both his daughters from him :(Www@Enter-QA@Com
<~~~~ ex wife is keeping both his daughters from him :(Www@Enter-QA@Com
If he seems like he genuinely wants to see her then yes, but watch he may just be trying to get through your barrier!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
make him go to court for visitation and pay child support if he wants to see her!. He hasn't been there this long so make him work for it if he really does want to see her now!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
has he tried to be a part of the child's life or given you any financial help!? if No, then i wouldn't!. cause he prob just wants to cause dramaWww@Enter-QA@Com
Yes, its a hard choice, but if you dont, the child will blame you for no relationship with their father!.!.!.!.trust me on this one!Www@Enter-QA@Com
He has the right to see her!. I would have to let him!. You should too!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Its up to U!. If u permit so again depending upon what u maintain ur relationship with ur daughter's father!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
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sure you should let him see her!.
but make sure you have a guy friend there and have her call him daddy the whole time!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
but make sure you have a guy friend there and have her call him daddy the whole time!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
He has the right to see his child but it's up to you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yeah!. Even though he was a piss-poor father he still has a right!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
Thats a tough call darlin!.!.!.how old is your daughter!.!.!.does she want to see him!.!.!.does she know about him!.!.!.does he plan on staying in her life!.!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
He has a right to see her whether you want him to or not!.!. if i had a choice then no because he hasnt involved himself in her life!.
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How old is she and why has he not seen her!? Was it his choice not to see her!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I think you should, if he's an a$$hole your daughter will figure that out in timeWww@Enter-QA@Com
Yes, it's his daughter so I would let him see her!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
Under a controlled environment!. You should find out what his sudden interest is!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yea cuz no matter what thats still her fatherWww@Enter-QA@Com
im irish and I think that you should let him see her!
are you seperated!?!?!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
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Yes!. I'd let them see each other!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yes!.!.!. you should!.!.!. unless he has the shakes pretty bad!.!.!. don't want him shaking the babyWww@Enter-QA@Com
Yes i think he has a right to see her!Www@Enter-QA@Com