Is it possible for someone to change who they've always been? ?!


Question: Is it possible for someone to change who they've always been!? !?
I'm not changing who i am to fit everyone else's expectations, but because i don't like who i am!.!. i get upset over too many things and i get depressed because of that, i just want to accept things and stop getting mad over those silly things!.!. i tried and i'm still trying but it seems so hard that i started to wonder if it's even possibleWww@Enter-QA@Com


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Yes, it is possible!. When you wake up every day you have a choice!. You can look at it as another day for things to go wrong and to think about regrets and past mistakes!. Or, you can look at it as a chance to start with a clean slate!.!.!.you can make goals for yourself and be happy that you're given yet another chance to make you and everyone you love, happy!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

YES it is very possible - don't get discourage, It can take a long time to undo what has become habits and ingrained behaviors - as well as our personalities -

That is what Alanon is all about - helping you reassess things, look at things from different perspective and to give support while you make those decisions!. I know you are supposed to have alcoholic in your life somewhere, but I truly believe that most people would benefit learning the Alanon way!. Just from your post, I can see if you got your hand on the 'one day at a time' book, you could address such things as depression, detachment, etc!. when you take care of your emotions, you will find that you will respond to things instead of reacting!. Using alanon along the side of therapy - will also catapult you to new discovers - it really aided my personal growth and helped me with these very issues you have listed!.

if you always do what you always did, you will always get what you always got!.!.!.

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oh absolutely!.

I've seen people face life or death situations and they were never the same, go from overweight smoking cursing Type A personality (like EVERYONE else in their family history)

to being quiet not smokers, non drinkers, compassionate, patient, joggers, working out etc!.!.

Of course it is, and it's even harder if you don't have that life or death incentive, but it is SO worth it, if you feel you need to!.

congratulations and all the best to you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

don't try to be something your not because you aren't happy with yourself because you will just feel worse!.
You can make improvements about whatever you don't like about yourself and learn to love what you do have!.
You will be fine and over time i know you will fix your problems or they won't bother you anymore!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Change is not merely necessary to life!. It is life!.

You will change and evolve whether you want to or not, and eventually you will fit who you were meant to be!.

Stop trying so hard and just be who makes you comfortable, if you do that the people you meet and foster relationships with will be worth while!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Definitely but the reason will be a huge factor in it's success!. You have to be true to yourself and whenever you shy away from that, I think it's easier to fail but I'm sure the stuff you've described isn't who you really are either, so you might have to just keep experimenting until things seem to fall into place for you!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I believe any one can change for the better!.
It will definitely be a never ending task, with great benifits on the way!.
Most definitely, the most difficult journey in life, is to change ones self!.
It is possible though!. With belief and faith in the Lord, he will change you for the better, along with your free will standing strong against negative influences!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

try reading What to Say When You Talk to Yourself, The Psychology of Winning, or The Secret!.!.!.
You are so way ahead of the game just thinking abou this!.!.yes, you can absolutely change 'who' you've been!.!.!.for the good or bad:

Watch your thoughts; they become words!.
Watch your words; they become actions!.
Watch your actions; they become habits!.
Watch your habits; they become character!.
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny!.
- Frank Outlaw

Good luck! Peace!.
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Stop trying so hard, ul never get anywhere!. Whenever you get upset, just ignore it and blow it off!. When you get depressed, distract urself and hang out with freinds!.

You cant force urself to change who you are, it will happen if you want it to!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I think so! I've done a lot of changing over the past few years! I wanted to change for me! It takes some time, and some constant self reminders but when the changes take affect you will love the new you! You could seek therapy if you want, but that's up to you!

Good Luck!

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Trying is a noble thing in itself!.!.!.

In a certain sense you remain the same individual your entire life!.!.!.

But you shouldn't feel limited by the choices you've made in the past!.

It helps to focus less on yourself and engage yourself more in the world around you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Depends!. Sometimes evil is so deep, nothing will change them into something better!. I also think pedophiles don't change!. Once that thought of hurting children is put into their heads, they will always think about it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I've changed who I was, twice!. One took a lot of time and thought-censoring, and the other was just accidental!.

If you really want to, I think you can!. You're always going to have some pieces of your old self, but you can make things better if you try!.

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Well, it is possible!. People learn, and grow, and as they learn and grow, they change!. You can do it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Yes people can change who they are if they really want too, but I think somewhere deep down inside people will always be who they've learned to be!. Just never change for other people, only do it for youself!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

you can try to change who you are but it will take awhile, but there will always be a part of the old youWww@Enter-QA@Com

simply put, go see a therapist, get your **** straight, you don't need to change who you are, just change your!.!.!. thinking!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Yes it's possible, but it takes time!. And you will always remember who you used to be, it will never go away!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Far more possible than trying to change another person!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

low self esteem is what your issue is!.!.!. try to look at things like it not negative, people are human and so are you!.!.!. can't say more to thatWww@Enter-QA@Com

Yes it is possible,self help groups for support in making those changes are great too!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

yeah its possible
just put ur mind to it
and change for ur good
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It's possible but it's not easy!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

It is possible but they have to do it for themselves and no one else!.
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Yes, watch The Biggest Loser!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Bill W!. and Dr!. Bob made it possible for me to change!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

all things are possible,-i thinkkWww@Enter-QA@Com



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