Poll: How do you weight the good and bad in~~?!
Question: Poll: How do you weight the good and bad in~~!?
Someone~~!? If they say nice things to you yet tell you how to live your life in a controlling way, how do you deal with that~~!? How much is too much for your scale~~!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
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Well if you have to ask this then you are looking to find out how important the relationship is too you!?!
And that is a good thing!.
1!. Weigh the importance of who you are now!. Are you better for having met this guy or worse!?
2!. How much influence does this guy have now!?
Do you do all things together based on his whims alone or do you both divide equally where to go and what to see!?
3!. Your friends!. Do you get to spend time with your friends with him or without him!?
Or is it all about his friends and his social calender!?
4!. Does he show an interest in the things you like or is he trying to get you to conform to his lifestyle and likes!?
5!. Does he expect you to be everywhere he wants you to be and call at certain times of the day just t "keep in touch, keep tabs on!?"
6!. How much is the present you is in his future!?
are you the next Stepford wife in waiting!?
7!. How much is having you as a trophy making him look well among his other friends!?
Does he need your looks and not your feelings!?
I think you must ask these questions if you find yourself in questioning a relationship!.
I found myself as a "kid" always wanting a girl that loved hockey, couldn't find one that liked me was the problem as i had become an alcoholic!. I then found JESUS CHRIST to pull me from the bottle and wake up to a best friend( Wife) who actually has played in woman's leagues as well as roller Derby as a young adult!
They say opposites attract but I believe unless you have something in common with the other person, you may have trouble adjusting your lifestyles to incorporate both partners!.
If one is willing to give all the time then that means the other is always willing to take and that is a warning sign!!
Hopes, huggs and lots of prayers,to you Sapphire!Www@Enter-QA@Com
And that is a good thing!.
1!. Weigh the importance of who you are now!. Are you better for having met this guy or worse!?
2!. How much influence does this guy have now!?
Do you do all things together based on his whims alone or do you both divide equally where to go and what to see!?
3!. Your friends!. Do you get to spend time with your friends with him or without him!?
Or is it all about his friends and his social calender!?
4!. Does he show an interest in the things you like or is he trying to get you to conform to his lifestyle and likes!?
5!. Does he expect you to be everywhere he wants you to be and call at certain times of the day just t "keep in touch, keep tabs on!?"
6!. How much is the present you is in his future!?
are you the next Stepford wife in waiting!?
7!. How much is having you as a trophy making him look well among his other friends!?
Does he need your looks and not your feelings!?
I think you must ask these questions if you find yourself in questioning a relationship!.
I found myself as a "kid" always wanting a girl that loved hockey, couldn't find one that liked me was the problem as i had become an alcoholic!. I then found JESUS CHRIST to pull me from the bottle and wake up to a best friend( Wife) who actually has played in woman's leagues as well as roller Derby as a young adult!
They say opposites attract but I believe unless you have something in common with the other person, you may have trouble adjusting your lifestyles to incorporate both partners!.
If one is willing to give all the time then that means the other is always willing to take and that is a warning sign!!
Hopes, huggs and lots of prayers,to you Sapphire!Www@Enter-QA@Com
So many people can be so nice on the outside!.!.!.!.but when it comes to a controller!.!.!.!.!.let it be known it's a harbinger of things to come!. Anyone telling you how to live your life!.!.!.!.only to make theirs happier is a narrow-minded, self-centered, selfish person!. Who is to say that whatever you do that makes you comfortable and happy is the wrong way to live!? How dare someone dictate to any grown adult!.!.!.!.how to live their life!.!.!.no matter how good their lip service is!.!.!.
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Nice things only go so far!. There is no niceness in a controlling man!. He suppresses your free will and happiness!. Do you really need another parent in your life who tells you what you can and can't do!.
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He'd weigh a zero!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
We have Three Type of Weighing Measurement!.!.!.!.
A) GOD'S Scale!.!.!.!.Tough and Clean
B) Human's Scale!.!.!.!.If I can get away with it!.!.!.!.Hell break loose
C) Devil's Scale !.!.!.!.Welcome to my world!.!.!.!.ha! ha! Ha!
Which Scale will you choose!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!?!?!?!?!?
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A) GOD'S Scale!.!.!.!.Tough and Clean
B) Human's Scale!.!.!.!.If I can get away with it!.!.!.!.Hell break loose
C) Devil's Scale !.!.!.!.Welcome to my world!.!.!.!.ha! ha! Ha!
Which Scale will you choose!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!?!?!?!?!?
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You walk!.
I believe the American Expression is "kick them to the kerb )or should I write curb!?)!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I believe the American Expression is "kick them to the kerb )or should I write curb!?)!.Www@Enter-QA@Com