Why the need to be liked?!


Question: Why the need to be liked!?
it always makes me laugh when you see people bending over backward to be liked or accepted!.!. im probably not wording this right butits not im saying you should be nasty or mean but why change who you are just to fit in with a load of people!.!. I am me if people dont like me thats fine i not going to worry about it sure it would be nice if we all got on and were best buds but theyre are people i dont like but i respect them for who they are if that makes sense!.!.!. why the need why not be who you are theres nothing more beautiful surely!?!?!?Www@Enter-QA@Com


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wow, that's the most intelligent piece of text that i've read all day!. so true!
it's got me thinking a lot!. I felt quite happy reading that thanks!!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Yes, but it is a natural human need to be feel loved, accepted, and understood!. Some people who don't fit in will try to change themselves completely in order to fit in because they are too afraid that they will not be accepted or respected for who they are, its called fear of rejection!. Other people who don't fit in, will not change themselves the slightest, but will still try, some will be respected for being themselves, and through that respect will gain friends, others will just be seen as outcasts, misfits, or people who don't fit in, and will have little or no friends because of it, but in most cases will have the respect of others even if they aren't friends with them!. Basically its just people being human, and wanting to fit in, you can't blame people for that!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I do agree with you!.
But sometimes for the sake of the ones you care about you adjust minor bits of yourself, or the most common one is too impress someone!.

I used to be like that for the sake of being liked, I had very low confidence, just to be accepted!. But now I would rather be hated if it comes to that than be who I am not!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

See I feel like you most of the time and I swear I am not going to conform to what people want me to be or what people think I should be but then I end up doing it for an easy life!. I say I don't care what people think of me and then I feel angry if someone doesn't like me, I think why doesn't that person like me!? what have I ever done to you!? that sort of thing and then get all worked up by it!. It's stupid I wish I knew why it affected me so much sometimes, when other times I just couldn't care less!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

OMG that was one of the LONGEST sentences ive read for quite a while!. gasping for breath now!!

but yeah, i think u worded it perfectly!. i guess some ppl are just very insecure about how others view them!. celebritys would definately have to get used to being disliked, coz afterall, u cant please everybody, now can you!?

i totally agree with u, as well, when u say that u should just be urself!. im sure after a while ppl will admire u for it!. i know i sure admire ppl like that!. in fact, i LOVE different ppl!. i guess i should too!.!.!.im one of them!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

The human being strives to be liked!. just like it strives to keep a elegant and attractive appearance!.

i bet, if someone came to you and told you they disliked (or worse, despised!.!.) some nerve in your brain would twitch, at least slightly!.

cmon, you can't deny that!?Www@Enter-QA@Com

I can care less if im liked loved disliked or what ever
i never care what others think of my and i shall never change for anyone :]Www@Enter-QA@Com

u're right !. but it is in human nature to want to be accepted in't it !?Www@Enter-QA@Com

im that girl that no one likes because i am bluntly honest!.
and i could give 2 shits and a ****Www@Enter-QA@Com

I'm guessing you're single right!?
Wait till you find someone you like!. You'll change just like the rest of us shmuckbags!.Www@Enter-QA@Com



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