Am i being selfish or is my sister?!
Question: Am i being selfish or is my sister!?
my birthday and my daughters birthday are in october, one week apart, my sister is having her bachalorette party the weekend of my birthday and the wedding is the weekend of my daughters and i'm a little irritated that she didn't think of us when she planned the wedding, and i being selfishWww@Enter-QA@Com
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I think its pretty selfish, your 30th birthday should be a celebration of you not your sister, and your daughters birthday should be her day, she shouldn't have to share it with some one else, your sister should have had all of this in mind, i would never plan a wedding without thinking about the rest of my family, cuz weddings and birthdays should be a family celebrationWww@Enter-QA@Com
It seems strange that she would book her wedding close to other peoples celebrations cos then she has to 'share the thunder' so its actually a rather selfless act on her behalf!. maybe there are deeper reasons for this!? the place could have been unavailable at other dates or maybe she even wanted to share the celebration!. obviously you actually know if any of these are possibilities, but take a better look from her perspective-most brides after all want the day to be all about them!!
as for your daughter, is it actually the same day or just the same weekend!? she will probably like to have a birthday the same day as a wedding anyway, to her theres more opportunity for presents and attention! and you can drag the celebrations out longer which she wont be complaining about!.
its a win win situation really!Www@Enter-QA@Com
as for your daughter, is it actually the same day or just the same weekend!? she will probably like to have a birthday the same day as a wedding anyway, to her theres more opportunity for presents and attention! and you can drag the celebrations out longer which she wont be complaining about!.
its a win win situation really!Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm not sure she was selfish maybe because she is so loved up the dates just didn't register or maybe they were the only dates available!.Try and turn your thoughts the other way and think she choose your birthday for the bachalorette party and her nieces birthday fo the actual wedding!. She'll never forget her niece's birthday now!. Try and relax and enjoy both events!. Perhaps you daughter's special day could be acknowledged at the wedding!?
Have a very happy birthday xxxxxWww@Enter-QA@Com
Have a very happy birthday xxxxxWww@Enter-QA@Com
I do think your sister should have taken all this into consideration!.How would she like it if u told her u can't make it to her bachalorette party cuz you'll be busy celebrating your B-day!?How does she know someone didn't plan a party for u!? How would she like it if u told her u could'nt make her wedding cuz that's when you're having your kids' B-day party!? Is she jealous of you!? Cuz it kinda seems like she's trying to "over shadow" you!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
And how old is your daughter going to be!.!.!.!?
Well then I don't think it'll matter too much because you'll probaly have a small kids party for your a daughter during the day!. Then you can go out with your sister in the evening and you both can celebrate your birthday and her last day as a single woman!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Well then I don't think it'll matter too much because you'll probaly have a small kids party for your a daughter during the day!. Then you can go out with your sister in the evening and you both can celebrate your birthday and her last day as a single woman!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I think it is kind of rude on her part!. I know I would never plan something the same weekend as my sister's or brother's birthdays!. It's not like you forget something like that!. I don't know why she would do this, but I think it is rude!.!.!.
Maybe she's jealous of you or something!. Now she wants all the attention!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
Maybe she's jealous of you or something!. Now she wants all the attention!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
How did she not think of you!? Just because her wedding date happened to clash with the celebration of your birthdays!? It's her wedding and it only comes once every lifetime, cut her some slack!. At least you can celebrate your birthday every year!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
That might have been the only day that she could reserve the venue for the wedding!. The dates probably have nothing to do with you!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
she was probably excited about the wedding & totally forgot about the birthdays!.!.
you have do decide now to carry on with the BD parties or your sister wedding I personally would celebrate my 30th & not go to her bachalorette party!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
you have do decide now to carry on with the BD parties or your sister wedding I personally would celebrate my 30th & not go to her bachalorette party!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
thats a bit of a situation!.try this celebrate your daughters and your birthday a week before the wedding and c how things go!.goodluck!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Sorry but I don't think she's being rude at all!.!.!.When you get married you don't ask if the day is convenient for everyone else!. When my husband and I got married we didn't check with anyone on the dateWww@Enter-QA@Com
you will have many birthdays!.!.!.and hopefully she will only have 1 wedding so yeah its a little selfish of youWww@Enter-QA@Com
Get over it, my brother is getting married on my birthday!. Sucks but suck it up!. Blood is thicker than water!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
well kinda since its her big day and all and it only comes once and bdays come along every year!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
YES SWEETIE U R BEING VERY SELFISHWww@Enter-QA@Com
Sure!.!.!.But, theres Nothing wrong With That!. :-)Www@Enter-QA@Com
she is sooo rude send her a noteWww@Enter-QA@Com