Why are so many negative when it comes to love?!


Question: Why are so many negative when it comes to love!?
all this!.!. stay single you will be better off!.!.!.true you don't need any1 but it's good to have when it's real!. but it's like if you have someone people assume you depend on people!.!. not true!.
Or I hear people who been hurt warn others to avoid love!. True but love does hurt!.!.but not always!. Opinions!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com


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Everyone stands alone on their experiences with Love, no two people have the exact same circumstances!. I can see both sides, and also shy away from marriage, but not a commitment of love to someone!. When you take time to really get to know that special person than it makes it all that much better!. You know the old saying, " It's Better to Have Loved and Lost, than To Have Not Loved At All ", Too many people go into a relationship with the attitude of what they will get out of it, instead of what they can put into it!. Be positive and give love unconditionally once you are with the person you have chosen and it will come back to you 10 fold, usually!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Most people aren't negative about real love, but people rarely experience real love!. What they experience most often is a combination of things from lust, desire, jealousy, vindictiveness, possessiveness, etc!. It's easy to become negative about things like these!.

If you get hurt by something enough times, you begin to avoid it, despite the wonderful potential!. When you believe in avoiding something, you naturally discourage others from dealing with it too!.

Now, some of their advice is accurate!. You do not NEED anyone!. While loneliness sucks sometimes, you are still fully functional!. Recognizing this fact is what allows you to get out of fake-love or bad relationships, without fearing that your life will fall apart and you won't make it without that person!. It means you don't have to put up with painful crap just to be with someone!.

I usually tell people just to go into it with both eyes fully open, and be aware that not everything fits everyone, nor can it be made to fit!. Know, ahead of time, that you may be leaving again!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I agree with the FOURTH girl! I've had alot of bad experiences too & I'd rather stay single for a while (I haven't been in a SERIOUS relationship for a year & a half!.) until I see a guy in sincerely interested, not just tryin to use or deceive me!

Negative Points:
-If he/she is a cheater
-Being accused of doing something your not
-Feeling like your obligated to do something your not interested in
-can't come & go as you please
-the chance of getting hurt/emotional attachment

Don't get me wrong there are many good points to being in a relationship,, but sometimes the bad outweighs the good (in some Cases)Www@Enter-QA@Com

i have negativity towards love sometimes, but only based on my experiences with it!.

i won't tell anyone to stay single or trash it, it is all up to the individual!.

my view towards it will get better once i find the right man that will treat me good!

but it is not bad, it is a very good thing to have someone and be in love!. and no it's not just having someone to depend on!Www@Enter-QA@Com

People who say these things have probably been 'burned' by 'love'!.
Personally, I see positives in both!. I'm single, and I like it that way, but I'm happy when other people find that 'special someone', I don't tell them to run, lol!.

Edit: 'I'm On To You', that was really lovely, now I'm feeling all mushy inside, lol!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I think love wil hurt u eventually!.U cant always b that good and no one is always perfect!. Hey, I love someone, and it really hurts that the dude isnt responding!. Itwont hurt as much when ur single!. but it also wont hurt as uch wen ur w/ someone u love!. U can chose!. No one can ever force u!.

HAPPY HOLIDAYS!Www@Enter-QA@Com

because you believe what you hear, Try looking at it from a different angle and think of all the positive things that come to love!. BTW, positives far outweigh the negatives!.

I'm On To You, That was beautiful and well put my angel!. xxx
That is best answer for sure!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

An open mind is good!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!. so is an open window, but we keep a screen over it to keep all of the bugs out,chew on that!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

experience = negativityWww@Enter-QA@Com

I have had so many bad experience with Love that I just gave up on it and I just perfer to stay single!Www@Enter-QA@Com



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