Do you believe in "love at first sight"?!
Question:
Do you believe in "love at first sight"?
Answers:
When I was younger, I used to...But now not anymore...
I think it's just a sweet illusion, especially the reciprocal love at first sight...Of course, immediate and mutual attraction is possible, but there is always one of the two persons who is more interested...After all, at the beginning, that's just a physical appreciation, and we can find out that actually we were only feeling our "instinct"...The relation can become a real relationship, but it may also be a total mistake, especially when we tend to idealize the person...
Love at first "sight" is actually love at "closed eyes", according to me...We may be blind, because the person is attractive like a sun...But that may be a mirage...
Any way, for a genuine love affair, we always have to use our skills of seduction...Sometimes the partner may be unfair,using traps and lies, that's why seducing sometimes looks like hunting or gambling...
It's an art...
But there can be no harmony and love if we can't understand each other and appreciate every little thing...