Poll:- Do you believe-You Cant Lose,What You Never Had?!
Question: Jo
Answers: Jo
logically that makes sense. but think about this. if you get fixated on a goal un-met or a person un-touched(two examples that have never been touched by you) but you want it sooo bad that you strive and try hard to have it. you get consumed that it becomes a life style for you. you build up what you think it might be in your mind of how it is to have said goal or said person that you have managed to attain them only in your mind of what you think they are.
when you come to the realization. that you can't have the actual goal or person it's like you go through withdrawal of a sense of loss.
you feel like you lost something that you really never had.
moral of the story. if a goal seems logically out of reach then don't strive for it before you put your self in a situation that you rather not be in.
Y MUST THE GOOD DIE YOUNG!
Yes :)
no, I believe you can't miss something you never had
I don't; nor do I believe that you can't miss what you haven't had
:)~
yup
.......Absolutely.......
yes. it's happened to me before
no, I used to, but I have lived and learned that you can lose, lose, lose, but look at the loser on the other end!!! Lucky us!!
yes
Sounds reasonable to me..
yes I do
how in the hell do you lose what you never had. how would you even know? what ever
i am
Yes i mot certainly do
yeha
that almost sounds like the question, "is the glass half full or half empty" or "are you an optimist or a pessimist". I'm the optimist.
yes i do!
When your sure that your going to get something...You feel like you already own it (kinda), so even though you don't loose it, because you never had it... It still hurts.. :-(
no i believe that you dont have to have something to actually miss it
yes i beleive it. I also beleive theat whats meant for you wont pass you by!! xx
correct !
well duh!
Hi so true Yes
Well, if you never had it how can you lose it???
yes
You also do not miss what you never had.
you can lose something you never had.
?Melli_Boo?
yes i do believe that!
ive believed it for a while
-drew
No, you can lose the opportunity to have it. If you close too many doors in your life --> miss out on many possibilities --> lose what you never had